The ability to talk to guys is not given to everyone. Even for the most beautiful girl, guys lose interest if she cannot conduct a conversation, is constantly silent and gets lost during a conversation. Therefore, it is necessary to try to get rid of complexes and learn the art of communication.
It is necessary
- - books;
- - mirror;
- - guys / guy.
Instructions
Step 1
Convince yourself that you need to learn how to communicate with guys. You must have a very strong desire to be social with guys. Several times a day, mentally imagine a picture of how you are having a great conversation with the opposite sex.
Step 2
Develop correct speech and enrich your vocabulary To be sociable, read more classic literature, memorize interesting quotes, jokes or anecdotes. Get rid of parasitic words, if you have them, and in no case use obscene words. Be clear about your thoughts, practice on your loved ones and in front of the mirror, observing your facial expressions and intonation.
Step 3
Smile The well-known words of the song from the cartoon "Little Raccoon" - "friendship begins with a smile" - give valuable advice. Always start meeting a guy in a good mood, greet the person or company with a smile. It is unlikely that guys will want to approach a sullen and too serious girl, this will only scare them away.
Step 4
Don't Be Afraid to Be the First to Start a Conversation Build the confidence to be outgoing with guys. You can prepare introductory phrases in advance. For example, start by saying that you watched a new movie the other day or were at a concert of a famous band.
Step 5
Talk to your interlocutor about what interests him Find out from the guy you like about his hobbies and ask questions that lead to a detailed answer. Be genuinely interested in the details of his hobby. If your interests are similar, then this is an additional plus for communication - more common topics are revealed.
Step 6
Learn to Listen Not only is it important to learn how to communicate with guys, but also to become a good listener. In an unfamiliar company, carefully follow the course of the conversation and insert appropriate remarks at the right time. And in a one-on-one conversation, do not interrupt the interlocutor, let him speak, nod and smile at him.
