There is a generally accepted opinion that female friendship cannot exist - an extremely beneficial cooperation on certain conditions. However, girls with enviable zeal are trying to find the very real friend who will be there both in grief and in joy, will always support and understand.
Instructions
Step 1
Lonely people are trying to find friends everywhere: on various Internet forums, at school, at a university, clubs, exhibitions, cinema. It would seem that there are so many places to search, but a friend is not around. First, think about what qualities should be inherent in your bosom companion.
Step 2
So, what kind of person would you like to see in the joyful and sad moments of your life? A real friend is the one who will come at your first call, regardless of the time of day or night; one who will always try to understand you and find an excuse for all your actions; a girl who shares your interests, life priorities and looks in the same direction with you; a woman who will never flatter your man, will not plot against you and spread gossip and rumors out of envy. The best friend is you, but only a little different.
Step 3
If you agree with all of the above, then it is quite understandable why you still do not have a real girlfriend. You are just not looking there. If you need a person who will give himself up to you without a trace, live your life, deal only with your problems, then it is unlikely that you will find yourself, because not a single person will tolerate a consumer attitude towards himself. People quickly feel it, get frustrated and leave, or in the worst case, start using you. If you need a girlfriend for selfish purposes, then be prepared for an honest exchange. Only this relationship cannot be called friendship - except perhaps barter.
Step 4
To have friends, you need to be able to be friends, which means to perceive a person as he really is, without trying to change. It is necessary not to demand from others a good attitude towards oneself, but to give one's own: care, tenderness, understanding, mental reserves, some knowledge and skills, time and energy, and even - this is surprising and incredible - a beloved man, if their feelings are mutual.
Step 5
Psychologically, few are ready for sincere and honest friendship, which is why few women have faithful friends. Before making demands and claims on other people, you should look inside yourself.
