It is often difficult for girls to achieve boyish attention. For his sake, they can "go out of their way" and commit insane acts. The result is often the opposite - ridicule and contempt. In fact, being popular with the opposite sex, gaining attention, can be easy, successful and not to your detriment.
Instructions
Step 1
Be visible, active, and outgoing. Be genuinely interested in other people, boys or girls, adults or children - it doesn't matter. Help them to the extent you can. But keep balance so you don't be intrusive.
Step 2
Cultivate optimism, goodwill, and most importantly, a sense of humor. Positive thinking attracts people. The ability to relate to yourself and different situations with humor makes life and communication with others easier.
Step 3
Do not be afraid to be yourself, be bright, show emotions. But never show your weaknesses in your company, in your class. You need to be open in moderation, use it where it plays for you, and yet do not get too carried away by the game
Step 4
Pay attention to your feminine qualities: femininity, charm, grooming. And then use the golden rule of measure. You should be perfect to the tips of your nails, but no one should know what it cost you. No one should see you often in front of the mirror.
Step 5
Cultivate your own flavor. Your hobbies, hobbies that are pleasure only for you will help you find and develop it in yourself. Never reveal all the secrets about yourself, leaving some part of your life covered with a halo of secrets.
Step 6
Develop yourself, your horizons. To communicate successfully with other people, you need to be aware of events, from your school to the city. Be interested not only in fashion or stars, but also in sports, the achievements of the boys around you. Just don't go overboard and join the ranks of the most famous gossips.
Step 7
Be confident in yourself. Charisma is more often given from birth, but willpower and confidence are brought up. Find your virtues, develop them. Learn to be persistent and achieve goals. Exercise so you don't feel completely defenseless. But also remember that "a woman's strength is in her weakness," so avoid demonstrating your superiority if you have it.
Step 8
Remember that you are a girl, a girl, a woman. Take care of your honor and dignity as well. Take care that your actions are not frivolous or ambiguous. Don't hurt yourself, lest popularity suddenly become a bad name. Love and respect yourself first of all.
