Someone does not have to do anything in order to win the favor of others. They are charismatic and easily fit into any team. If you’re not that lucky, it’s natural to have a hard time trying to be part of an established company. After all, you will have to be able to show yourself to strangers from the best side and achieve their location.
Instructions
Step 1
Once in an unfamiliar company, it is tempting to show yourself to be a better person - smarter, more successful, or sharp-tongued than you really are. After all, they don't know you yet. However, insincerity is noticeable. And you will soon get tired of maintaining the image of a merry fellow and a joker if you yourself are a quiet and modest person. Your goal is to try to make people love you for who you really are.
Step 2
Try to remember the names of all the people you are talking to. Psychologists say that a name for a person is one of the most pleasant words. So your friends will be very flattered when they realize that you have already learned them in person and remember who's name.
Step 3
Try to always dress tastefully and not get too out of the company in style. They only meet you by their clothes, but first of all you need to be greeted warmly.
Step 4
If you are asked about something while answering, try to get the other person talking. But there is no need to answer the question "How are you?" dump your problems on a person. Tell us about a funny incident that happened to you the other day, ask how your friend would have acted in your place. If the question asked to you seems inappropriate, laugh it off and direct the conversation in a different direction, rather than declare your opponent about his tactlessness.
Step 5
Try to find topics of conversation and hobbies that are close to you and the members of the company you hope to develop a relationship with. Pop music, embroidery, vintage cars, British TV series, science news - if something interests you and your new acquaintances, this will be an excellent basis for a closer acquaintance. If you have absolutely no idea what these people like, just ask them to talk about their hobby. You will be grateful for the fact that you gave the opportunity to talk about your favorite topic and listened carefully.
Step 6
Not only a woman in love can find a way to a man's heart through his stomach, this method works on many. Even a bag of sweets for tea or a large package of chips brought for a joint viewing of a film will be greeted with joy by a hungry company.
