It is better to love the mother of your faithful at a distance. And the greater this distance, the stronger the love. There are one in a million stories about how the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law lived happily ever after.
Instructions
Step 1
Take your time with hasty decisions about the move. First, try to improve your relationship with your mother-in-law. If she has already brought up such a wonderful man - your husband, then surely there are positive qualities in her. A mother-in-law may be hostile to her daughter-in-law if she feels a threat to her long-established existence. After the wedding, she is forced to share the love of her son, which previously belonged only to her, with another woman. Perhaps your mother-in-law is simply afraid of being alone and feeling useless. Try to convey to her the idea that she is not losing her son, but, on the contrary, is gaining a daughter as well.
Step 2
If your attempts to mend a relationship have failed miserably, look for a separate home. There is a certain category of mother-in-law, whom only a woman with the appearance of Jessica Alba, the brains of Sophia Kovalevskaya and the salary of Elvira Nabiullina can please. Everyone else would be clearly unworthy of her precious son. Do you spin in the kitchen all day? Cooking some nonsense that is bad for the stomach. Don't you go to the stove at all? A lazy woman who wants to starve her husband to death. It is imperative to move out of such mother-in-law.
Step 3
The most important thing is to convince the husband of the need to move. It is not recommended to ask the question bluntly - either mom or me. Do not throw tantrums and scandals, do not complain, do not nag or threaten with divorce. He is the head of the family, and he must make the decision to move on his own. Your task is to put this correct decision in his head.
Step 4
Draw a rosy perspective for your husband to live in a separate apartment. Rewrite in a notebook the secret recipes for pies and cutlets that his mother cooks so wonderfully, and promise to cook them regularly. Seduce your husband with promises of enchanting sex in your own cozy bed. Tell him that only the presence of his mother behind the wall prevents you from fulfilling all his sexual fantasies. The main thing is that he wants to move and personally inform his mother about it.
Step 5
Try to convince your mother-in-law that she would be better off living without you. Not an easy task, but worth a try. If she is single, but relatively young, she will be able to arrange her personal life. She will have time for her hobbies. No one will bother her from watching her favorite TV series and talk shows. She doesn't have to cook at all. Parting with your mother-in-law is not worth it. She is, after all, the mother of your husband and the grandmother of your children. Promise to visit her every weekend or invite her over.
Step 6
Reduce your own expenses if you live with your mother-in-law for material reasons. Think about what is more important to you - a new dress or personal space. Find a higher-paying job, do not give up part-time jobs. Study the real estate market, find out the conditions for obtaining a mortgage in different banks. Look for a rented apartment through friends, perhaps an option with a fabulously low rent will turn up. Don't sit back. Let your husband see your activity and get infected with it. If you're on maternity leave, look for work from home. It will be more difficult financially, but easier emotionally.
