Hugging is a great way to take the initiative in a relationship with a guy you like. Especially if you're not sure if he likes you. You can achieve physical contact without having to look at the guy. So even for the most shy, this method of first intimacy is suitable. In addition, the first time you hug a guy, you can probably figure out whether you can succeed or not.
It is necessary
- Self confidence
- Happening
Instructions
Step 1
In order to hug a guy, you need to reach a certain level of relationship with him. That is, at least you should be familiar and communicate from time to time.
Step 2
Stand or sit next to the guy. Try to close the distance between you as much as possible so that you can touch him. But don't make these maneuvers obvious.
Step 3
To hug a guy, maintain eye contact with him throughout the meeting and smile at him often. If he smiles back, chances are good that he likes you too. Although even if he did not respond to a smile, do not despair. Maybe he's just shy.
Step 4
Touch his arm (or leg if sitting) a couple of times. Notice how he reacts to these touches. Wait for the right moment for a hug. If you are meeting, for example, during a football match, wait for your team to score a goal, and you can safely hug the guy in a burst of joy.
Step 5
After that, apologize for your actions, pretending that this hug was an accident. Say, for example, that you were so worried that it happened by itself. If he likes you, then most likely he will say that everything is in order, and he even liked it.
Step 6
If you, for example, are walking together, then in order to hug a guy, you can mention that you are cold. He may offer to warm you in his arms. If he does, then you can return your hugs in gratitude.
Step 7
If you are spending time with friends, you can jokingly hug him in a friendly way. Just don't make it too romantic. If he likes you, he will also hug you back. And who knows how these friendly hugs will end.
