Lovers' relationships tend to be fragile and short-lived. You cannot be the owner and arrange scenes of jealousy in them, because most often such relationships are built with the aim of enjoying each other, and not to create a family. Sometimes such a relationship is very prolonged and in order to avoid unwanted situations, your lover leaves. How do I get it back?
Instructions
Step 1
Analyze your relationship. Try to understand exactly why the breakup occurred. And in no case do not hide in a corner and do not give up in front of difficulties. You must be collected, this is the only way to return a loved one. Extra tantrums and tears are useless. Think over your next steps better.
Step 2
You should not bother him with your constant calls, SMS, complaining and showing how you suffer without him. Don't insist on meetings. Give him a rest, collect his thoughts. The ideal option for you is a casual meeting, which you can arrange yourself. At the same time, be friendly and charming with your ex, but make it clear that the world did not collapse after he left your life. Perhaps, with your ambiguous behavior, you will make him jealous, and he will decide to resume the relationship.
Step 3
Take your time. He must realize that you are a wonderful lover and he cannot find you better. Take your time with action. Make your lover aware of his condition without you. Use the waiting time to your advantage: improve, develop, for example, in the sexual sphere. Sign up for erotic massage courses or practice dancing or plasticizing your body. You can take care of your appearance. Visit a beauty salon, change your image. Go shopping, buy yourself some pretty sexy outfits or stylish underwear to make yourself even more attractive in the future.
Step 4
If time has passed and you still cannot forget your loved one, try to meet with him and talk in a relaxed atmosphere. Tell him that you still love and miss. Show that you are ready to change. Perhaps the current situation will be resolved in your favor.
Step 5
In the case when the breakup is associated with the appearance of another woman, try to learn as much as possible about her. Who she is, her strengths and how serious your ex-lover's intentions are for her. Maybe you should make new acquaintances and switch to another man.
