In relationships, quarrels often occur, leading to separation. But it so happens that one side does not want to part with a lover and tries to return him by any means. Inappropriate behavior can only alienate a loved one, so you should behave carefully and consistently.
Instructions
Step 1
Take it easy. After a breakup, it takes some time to recover and start thinking intelligently. During this period, do not mess with your beloved, as in a conversation you can say a lot of unnecessary things. When your emotions have subsided a little, engage in returning him to a clear head, not clouded by anger or resentment.
Step 2
Be nice if you're going to get back together with your boyfriend. Don't stoop to insults, accusations, pleading, threats, or blackmail. Befriend your ex. When meeting, behave politely, smile, keep the conversation going. If he has a new girlfriend, be nice to her too, hiding an inner storm of emotions.
Step 3
Find out the real reason for leaving. There is usually some reason behind the breakup, obvious or hidden. Analyze your behavior, try to understand what exactly forced the beloved to leave you. If no thoughts appear, ask him directly.
Step 4
Accept your mistakes and correct them. When you find the reason for the breakup, try to get rid of it. If you haven't listened to him much, start showing interest in his conversations. If you stop taking care of yourself, take care of your appearance. Find a way to change your behavior and become better than you were before.
Step 5
Show the man how you have changed. He will appreciate your efforts, see your desire to fix everything, and maybe want to get your relationship back. If this happens, consider your past mistakes, do not repeat them, and more closely monitor his mood. It may not be enough for a man that you have corrected your mistakes, then make an effort to awaken reciprocal feelings in him.
Step 6
Fall in love with him again. Once you have already managed to touch his heart, which means you can repeat it. You know his preferences, weaknesses, favorite places, and whatever he likes. Show your interest, take the initiative, offer to meet and take a walk. In the conversation, recall pleasant moments from your relationship and funny situations.
