When a lover leaves, an unpleasant feeling arises. Instead of getting upset and blaming yourself for your unattractiveness, you should consider how to get the attention of the man who dumped you back.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not panic. Of course, when something unpleasant happens, the first thing you want to do is hide in a corner and never leave it. If you have a strong relationship, then it will be much more difficult to survive the loss. But trying to return a person while in such a state is simply pointless.
Step 2
Get yourself in order. Some women try to get the relationship back right after the breakup. This is not always correct. Tear-stained eyes and frequent tantrums will not only not attract your ex-lover, but, on the contrary, will push him away. First, become that old woman who captivated him, and only then proceed to action.
Step 3
Do not call immediately after the breakup and do not insist on meeting if your ex-lover does not want it. Forget about threats. This will not bring you closer to achieving your goal. Try to meet your ex as if by chance. Surely you know where he works and what time he is released, where he spends his free time, etc.
Step 4
Don't hope for an instant return in the relationship. If a man left you, then he had some reason. Your job is to understand what exactly made your lover break up with you. Perhaps you relaxed and stopped sexually satisfied with him, he improved relations with his wife, or found another mistress.
Step 5
Try to eliminate the reason that prompted your lover to leave you. If you are partly to blame for this, then start taking care of yourself, purchase several sets of sexy lingerie, go to massage courses, etc. If the cause was another woman, then try to find out how serious the new attachment is. In some cases, it’s better to really step back and move on.
Step 6
Share directly with your lover whatever you feel. Tell him how much you miss him, that you are ready to correct all your mistakes. If your relationship was solely about sex, demonstrate to your man that you can be a wonderful lover. And then, perhaps, he will change his mind.
