Parting is always painful, regardless of who initiated the breakup. However, it is more difficult for a guy to come to terms with the fact that he was abandoned, since he sees this as a consequence of his own inferiority. A woman planning to end a relationship with a man needs to be very careful.
Instructions
Step 1
Never listen to someone who says you need to prepare a guy before you tell him that it's over between you. Believe me, your attempts to soften the blow will not lead to anything good. The man will feel that you are preparing him for a serious conversation, and, as usual, will suspect the worst. Save the nerves of a once loved one: do not stretch the painful moments.
Step 2
Try not to say that you are not the last woman in his life, that he will still meet love on his way. Understand that your partner is not yet able to think about the future, and, you must admit, the speeches about how he will live in the future sound strange, even arrogant in your mouth.
Step 3
Don't try to calm your ex. This will not ease his pain, but, on the contrary, will increase it. Seeing your pity, a person will think that he looks so insignificant that no other feelings for him can be experienced. Don't be selfish, don't try to smooth out your guilt with acts of "kindness" that help you rather than your boyfriend.
Step 4
Don't say that you need to break up, that it will be better this way. Who needs? For whom is it better? That's right, for you and for you. You shouldn't decide for the guy how to react to the current situation. You cannot deprive a person of the right to suffer. Perhaps you want him to be good, but there is nothing you can do to achieve this.
Step 5
Don't leave in English. The guy will hope you come back if he doesn't hear an explanation. Believe me, this can make life difficult not only for him, but also for you.
Step 6
Parting is a serious thing. Before deciding on it, you need to think carefully. But when the choice is made, you cannot retreat. Don't make concessions if the guy is trying to get you back. Love is irrevocable: there is no point in holding on to the past. Leave without looking back. Know, there is a new life ahead!
