Very often, the relationship between a guy and a girl comes to a standstill. This happens for various reasons: too complex characters, opposite views on life, faded feelings. As a rule, there is only one way out of this impasse - parting.
Parting is most often a very painful process for both the girl and the boyfriend. It is easier for men in this situation: they can either simply forget themselves in the company of friends, or find themselves a new hobby, since they are less sensitive than ladies and less attached to their soulmate. It is much more difficult for girls to break off relations, and it is very difficult to decide on such a serious step.
So, if you do decide to break up with your boyfriend, try to do it correctly. Invite him to a meeting in some neutral place that will not remind him of the time spent with you. But do not forget that too crowded a place is also not suitable for such a conversation. It is best to give preference to a small, cozy cafe.
Start a conversation from afar. Don't immediately knock a guy down with your decision. Try to tell him in detail everything that you feel, that has accumulated in your soul. Explain what exactly you lacked in your relationship and try to convey to the guy that breaking up is the only way out of this situation.
Also, in order to cause the man as little pain as possible when parting with him, try to gradually move away from him. Don't do it unexpectedly. For example, today you walk together, kiss and hug each other, then he escorts you home, and you say to him: "Sorry, honey, we are parting!" You don't need to do this. Try to see him less often, avoid phone calls and correspondence. Perhaps he himself will guess your intentions and will be the first to offer you a break, so as not to trample his self-esteem and not be abandoned.
In any case, before taking such a serious step, think about whether you are ready to let the person go, or whether you can still overcome the crisis in your relationship.
