Different situations happen in life, and some cause such mental pain that it is very difficult to cope with it. For example, the wife packed her things and slammed the door, the husband was abandoned. And the question arises before him: how to live on, how to endure the departure of his wife? All people are different. Nevertheless, for the vast majority of men, this situation is a severe psychological blow. Even the most calm, phlegmatic man cannot bear the thought of being abandoned. And if he is emotional, impressionable, then this is generally akin to the end of the world!
Instructions
Step 1
The easiest way is to find solace in the old adage “all women are bitches!” And then in alcohol. Fortunately, there will be no shortage of those willing to “comfort” the sufferer. But this is the same simplicity, which is worse than theft. Since the problem will not be solved, but that it can come to alcoholism is much more true.
Step 2
Remember another truth: "Work is the best distraction from grief!" The more a person is busy, the less time, energy and desire he has to indulge in despondency, or, even worse, despair. And also the less opportunity to drown grief in alcohol. It's not just about the main job. It is quite possible to find yourself some interesting hobby, hobby. The main thing is that it distracts from painful thoughts!
Step 3
Is it worth it to act on the principle of "kicking out a wedge by a wedge"? That is, immediately try to find a mistress or even a new wife? Probably not. After all, a man in 99% of cases will be overwhelmed not with sincere, deep feelings for his new partner, but with the desire to take revenge on his ex-wife, to prove to her that she was mistaken and did not appreciate him! And women are usually very sensitive to such things. Such a romance is unlikely to last.
Step 4
Gradually, when the first, strongest, emotions pass, when the mental pain subsides a little, you need to analyze the reasons for leaving your wife with the utmost honesty and impartiality. If you admit that this is your fault, and most importantly, if you still love your wife and are ready to re-establish family life, you can try to reconcile with your wife and convince her to return. Of course, this is not always possible, and does not depend on one man.
Step 5
If a woman has stopped loving you and does not even want to hear about the resumption of life together, there is nothing you can do about it. In this case, it is necessary to part in an amicable way, preserving dignity, especially if there are small children in the family. After all, they should not suffer because of the quarrels of adults!
Step 6
Well, for the future you need to take into account your mistakes. At least, in order not to repeat them in a new marriage, if it is concluded.
