The love of two people does not always develop into a strong, long-term relationship. It's good when feelings pass even before the couple has children. But it also happens that pregnancy occurs unplanned and accidentally. Some men, especially at a young age, are frightened of responsibility and abandon the chosen one, who must decide for herself what to do next - to become a single mother or to have an abortion. Having made the decision to keep the pregnancy, the girl soon faces the question of how to find the father for the child.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not think that you will not arouse male interest with a small child in your arms. This opinion is often wrong. There are many men raising other people's children on an equal basis with their own. Therefore, making new acquaintances, do not hide the fact that you already have a child. In no case should you be ashamed of this. Children are happiness, and the fact that you gave life to a little person is something you can only be proud of.
Step 2
If you are serious about finding a worthy father for your child, do not become dependent on your feelings. Not all men who pay attention to you are capable of becoming good fathers. Think sensibly, focusing not only on your sympathy, but also on the presence of such qualities as responsibility, purposefulness, justice, kindness, caring in a man.
Step 3
Observe how the man you are interested in treats children in general. The way to the heart of a woman with a child lies through a benevolent and sincere attitude towards her child. Therefore, a man who is sincerely interested in your baby is able to conquer you faster, while a person who is indifferent to children will push you away from himself.
Step 4
When communicating with a man who is counting on a closer and more serious relationship with you, let him know that while for you in the first place is the happiness and well-being of your baby. Only by accepting him as a loved one can a man be next to you.
Step 5
If you and your chosen one decide to live together, observe his attitude towards the child. Do not allow injustice, but do not blame the man if he takes the necessary educational measures in relation to the baby. The baby should feel from an early age not only paternal love, but also male authority and control in the family.
Step 6
When family life is established, try not to focus the attention of the man and the child on the fact that they are not related to each other. Indeed, for spiritual intimacy, the main thing is not blood relationship, but mutual understanding, love and tenderness for each other.
