Time is fleeting, and the message that you are about to become a grandmother can take you by surprise. The birth of grandchildren is wonderful. Do not panic, wisdom and everyday experience will help you become a good grandmother.
Instructions
Step 1
Refresh your mind about childcare. Read the modern literature on raising babies, a lot has changed since your motherhood. Ask which method of raising children is closest to the expectant mother, this will help you better understand each other.
Step 2
Help young parents take care of their baby. Offer your help with household chores. The kid takes a lot of time and a delicious dinner prepared by a caring grandmother will be appreciated.
Step 3
Invite your tired mommy to relax and take some time for yourself while you walk with your baby on the street. When the child grows up, read books to him and do educational games with him. Over time, invite your parents to bring their grandchild to your place for the weekend. Spouses can be alone or meet friends, and you can have plenty of fun with your baby. The main thing is that your help is calm and unobtrusive. You should not rush to extremes and spend every day at the baby's crib, vigilantly watching all the actions of young parents.
Step 4
Don't question your mom's credibility, even if you don't quite agree with her parenting methods. Give all your advice in a correct and friendly manner. For questions regarding your baby's health, consult your doctor first. But such clarifications are needed in case of emergency, when you fundamentally disagree with how parents treat a child and see a real threat to children's health.
Step 5
Come up with an activity with your grandchild. When the baby is visiting you, bake pies together, go on interesting mini - hikes, let you have your own simple secret. And of course, children associate all grandmothers with warmth, love, comfort and gifts. Love your grandchildren, be sincerely interested in their life, and little hearts will reciprocate you.
