The topic of oral sex has long been out of the category of seditious. It is quite simple to give pleasure to a loved one in this way, and the effect can exceed all expectations. To reach mutual understanding on this issue, you need to know how men feel about blowjob.
A special pleasure
The overwhelming majority of men love blowjob and consider it a simple and always desirable form of pleasure. Much contributes to this state of affairs: relative safety, almost unveiled propaganda in the media, the prevalence of oral sex in erotic films and, most importantly, the ease of the direct path to pleasure. A man does not need to strain and make any gestures. This can be done when a woman has critical days, treatment, or pregnancy. By and large, he does not even need to think about what his partner is experiencing at this moment. All that is needed is to get into a comfortable position, relax and enjoy.
A woman should not be mistaken: even if you meet a person on your way who does not accept this kind of caress, you can be sure that he is an exception to the rule. After all, there are only a few minor reasons why a man might not like a blow job.
Exceptions to the rule
There are men who do not like blowjob, or they are indifferent to it. These are a clear minority. Most likely, there are some complexes, problems or negative experience behind this. Although it is quite possible - just personal preference. Keep in mind: if your partner previously had a relationship with a woman who was against the blowjob, or did it badly or reluctantly, this may also be the reason why the man stopped wanting this kind of caress altogether. However, you always have a chance to change the situation and give your loved one real pleasure.
Stereotypes and misconceptions
For some reason, many women believe that a blow job is a manifestation of the highest degree of trust. Men have a different opinion on this matter, more often close to the opposite. For example, open popular men's forums and you will find something to be surprised about. Oral sex among the stronger sex is often equated with kissing and is not even considered treason. That is why you should not assume that your oral sex will become something intimate for an experienced partner. Rather, it will be seen as a step towards regular sex or a pleasant part of foreplay.
It would be a big mistake to demonstrate your negative attitude towards blowjob in the event that your man has a serious sexual experience, and he clearly likes oral sex. Your statements that it is beneath your dignity, and the taste and smell of semen are disgusting to you, are unlikely to have a good effect on your intimate life. If you actually dislike oral sex with such disgust, look for a partner with similar views. Otherwise, this unfulfilled desire of a man will sooner or later make itself felt.
An equally common misconception is that a woman intuitively guesses how to do a blowjob. Each man may have his own preferences - from intensity and depth to specific mouth movements and hand manipulations. The notorious porn films, by the way, are unlikely to help you learn the art of sex, but oral sex techniques can be gleaned from there. Put aside the embarrassment and just talk to your man: he will surely be happy to share with you what he would like to receive from you in this pleasant business.
