Sexual games with binding involuntarily give rise to an association with the BDSM subculture, where the first letter "B" means "bandage" (binding). Bandage is a whole art, in which there are countless techniques and methods of tying. The average couple can take advantage of the experience of BDSM practitioners to diversify the sexual sphere of their lives.
Preliminary stage
Bondage in sexual games has two components - psychological and physiological. It is necessary to first find out from your partner, especially if you started dating recently, if he has any chronic diseases or fears, for example, hypertension or fear of a closed space. It is necessary to indicate the partner's taboo, let him list what cannot be done with him: smear him with strawberry jam, step on his stomach with his heel, etc. The woman, who is the dominant partner, in this situation takes responsibility for the success of the event.
Bondage play requires minimal preparation. When you figured out the degree of omnipotence of one and the subordination of the other, come up with a scenario. In any case, this is a game. Make it role-playing and fun. Play, for example, amazon and captive. Let it be a game, but it must be motivated, and everyone plays their part.
You can tie anything - scarves, ties, belts and even tights, just not too much so as not to squeeze blood vessels. It is not necessary to immediately buy ten meters of rope and immediately start performing the bandage knots according to the scheme.
The etiquette of these games requires a special dress code. A woman should be in shoes or boots with heels, stockings, corset. The man is definitely naked. He obeys. He is your prisoner.
Don't lose sight of the surroundings of the space. Turn off the lights at home, light candles, incense, turn on music.
You can play while lying down, standing or sitting. Agree in advance what you will tie your man to: to a chair, to a radiator, to a bench in a bathhouse, to a birch tree in the yard of your house, etc.
The game has begun
To enhance the playful effect, you can blindfold your partner when you start foreplay. The deprivation of the ability to see, hear, smell is called sensory deprivation. And if a person loses the ability to see what is happening, his other senses will heighten.
Make him caress you where you want, how you want. Today he is your prisoner, let him do what he is told. Will be lazy, slap a couple of times on the pope. This is one of the most sensitive erogenous zones. Suddenly, like it. The spank will come in handy and will cause an explosion of feelings, because the man is already ashamed, he is already helpless, and then he is also spanked. The hero of the film "Paradise Delight" from childhood could not live without spanking, and found happiness at the end of the story.
It is desirable to treat the prisoners humanely. Caress your man so that he will remember for a long time. Do not forget about yourself, because your goal is to get unforgettable pleasure too. Make sure that his "rebellious dignity" can be used at the most suitable moment for you. There are many techniques to arouse a partner, and the gentlest are not always the most effective. Experiment by touching his erogenous zones, lightly pinching, scratching, and nibbling with your teeth. Watch. See what he likes and what he doesn't.
Additionally, you can use an ice cube, for example. Let the water droplets drip onto his stomach from your fingers. Touch the cube to his nipples, move it along the back. Watch the reaction.
Naturally, talk about everything that happened a few minutes after the orgasm of both. Discuss what you liked and what turned out to be unacceptable. And keep experimenting.
Most helpful advice
For nothing, never touch your partner's throat during sex bondage games. You have no experience and possibly no medical education. Strangulation is too difficult a BDSM practice. This does not concern you.
