The time has passed when casual, fleeting relationships were unconditionally condemned by society. If a woman is already old enough to date partners of the opposite sex, but has not yet found a permanent pair, casual relationships are somehow present in her life, and this is normal. Another thing is that it is good to protect yourself from disappointments and not expect too much from such meetings.
Of course, no one wants to be alone with a pervert or rude, even for one evening. In order not to get disappointment from a fleeting romance instead of pleasure, you need to learn to understand people well or look for a partner in the most "safe" places - at parties with friends, for example.
- Going to a party in order to "relax" a little, it is important to take care of your own health in advance. For example, buy condoms.
- Do not be afraid to take the initiative into your own hands, otherwise there is a risk of wasting time. And you should not be disappointed if you did not manage to reach orgasm or everything went not “perfect” enough in bed - as a rule, partners need time to get used to each other and learn to catch each other's sexual signals - with casual sex this is not possible.
- You should not "load" a casual partner with your problems and complaints about life. Your short novel has a different purpose: to relax and have fun.
- You shouldn't consider casual sex as a chance to find "your destiny" - although this happens, it is extremely rare.
- Before engaging in intimacy with an old friend, think about whether fleeting sex will ruin your friendship.
- Do not show your sexual temperament too much - this can scare your partner away.
- Alcohol "for courage" is a good remedy, but in very small quantities, otherwise there is a risk that even memories will not remain from a pleasant evening.
- If you decide on a casual contact, you should not postpone the process: exchanging phone numbers and making an appointment for the next day are not at all a guarantee that it will take place.
