Indecent sexual fantasies are often a taboo topic that even partners do not always discuss among themselves. But if thoughts about unfulfilled desires become too intrusive, you should not leave them in the category of unrealizable. Think about how you can translate them into reality.
It is necessary
- - the Internet;
- - props;
- - intimate toys
Instructions
Step 1
Deal with your erotic fantasies, trying to look at them realistically. If you see something interesting in a porn film, remember that it will not always be as exciting in reality. For example, one of the most common fantasies of both women and men involves group sex. On the screen, these scenes can look easy and harmonious, but in reality it can be hard or painful for a woman, and a man simply may not have enough strength. Evaluate in detail how you plan to realize such a fantasy. If nothing bothers you, proceed with the implementation.
Step 2
Discuss intimate moments with your partner. Your job is to figure out how far he / she is willing to go. It is quite possible that you do not even suspect what is going on in the head of a loved one, what thoughts and desires occupy him. Cast aside prejudices, you will probably be surprised that the person with whom you share the bed is ready to go much further than you always thought. A number of non-standard intimate activities, for example, anal sex or fisting, may seem unnatural to a woman only because she is subject to stereotypes and is sure that she will not like it. Persuade her to try just a little, and it is possible that your partner will open up new intimate horizons for herself. If your sexual fantasies clearly contradict the relationship in a couple, you must decide for yourself what is more important to you - the realization of desires or the trust of a partner.
Step 3
Find like-minded people. Be sure that in reality there will be much more of them than it seems initially. Start by reading the relevant forums on the internet. First, just take a closer look at the participants, because among them there may be many who just came to have fun and are not going to show themselves in real life in any way. Gradually, you will surely find interesting links or contacts of like-minded people with whom you can realize your wildest sexual fantasies. Throw away unnecessary modesty and do not be afraid to talk about what you want. You can meet on your way adequate and experienced partners who will open up new facets of intimate life for you.
