The days when men went hunting and women cooked and raised children are long gone. Today, the family hearth is created by two loving hearts who have vowed to be faithful to each other, to love and care for each other mutually. Love is good, but, as they say, “you won't be full,” and the family should be provided for.
Family responsibilities
All the main components for arrangement, decoration, childcare, washing, cooking, cleaning, etc., fall within the family on the woman. This happens most often. This begs the question: what role does a man play in the family? Naturally, nothing else comes to mind except to provide financial support and help in household life. This is a classic version of an ordinary family.
Nowadays, a woman wants to feel on an equal footing with a man. Naturally, the men are protesting. Not only does the wife work on her own, she does not always cope with household chores, the husband has to interrupt himself with sandwiches, the children are sometimes left to themselves, the house is not cleaned, so she also claims that he is obliged to fully provide for the family. Agree, the man's anger is justified in this case. You can understand the position of the woman: all household chores are on her, the husband is only busy making money, which he does not want to contribute to the family budget, because the wife also works. Therefore, the woman does not report to him about her income.
In fact, in a real family, people must discuss and agree on everything. It will be easier if both the husband and wife determine how much money they will leave for their own expenses and how much they will give to the family budget.
Family goals for spouses
A woman marries to give birth to a child, to create home comfort and to surround the house with warmth and care, as well as to get comfort from male care, to feel a “strong shoulder”. A man, most often, when creating a family, is driven by the desire to possess a beloved woman.
More often than not, a man simply does not understand all the responsibility that he takes upon himself for the life of a mother and child when he marries.
A man always demands from his chosen one full dedication and care of himself, his beloved. He was not used to giving all the money he earned, he spent it on himself. Very often, with such a husband, a woman acquires a “second child”, to whom she must show a lot of patience and gently reconfigure him for family relationships. Therefore, if a woman is on an equal footing with him, if she earns decently, of course, you need to discuss a joint budget, honestly make up the planned expenses for yourself, for your family, for everyday life.
There is simply no other option. Trust in each other is indispensable here. Very often, due to the reason for finding out who owes whom, the family does not get out of conflicts and scandals. Dear lovers, try to remember how you loved and trusted each other, you need to preserve your relationship, not let everyday life destroy them. You need to help and trust each other.
