Convincing a man to marry is not as difficult as it seems. Of course, there are convinced bachelors, but most of the men at a certain point ripen to this fateful decision, especially if they are pushed a little.
What to do to make a guy turn into a husband?
The most important thing to remember - do not nag a man on the topic "when will we get married ?!", do not whine, do not complain about life. Doing so will backfire. Well, who would like to get married out of hand?
If you want him to propose to you, analyze yourself. If you don't like yourself, change. You need to take a sober look at yourself from the outside, put yourself in the shoes of a man and ask "Do I want to marry myself?" If the answer turns out to be no, think about the most interfering factors and, as a result, get rid of them.
Be sure to communicate with a man, listen to him carefully, help with advice. Men appreciate attentive listeners, it is very important to become his confidante.
Do not portray what you are not. Don't go overboard with makeup, who likes to go to bed with one woman, but wake up completely with another? Do not wear provocative clothes, do not use false curls and nails. Men want to see a woman next to them without pretense and camouflage. This does not mean that you need to stop taking care of yourself.
The main thing is to really want to get married
Men value emotional stability. They prefer adequate women, few people like the American "emotional" roller coaster. If you are prone to hysterical manifestations, react to stress too violently, do not "hold" the psychological load, seek help from a psychotherapist, do yoga or meditation, calm down emotions. Men really need a place of peace.
Don't forget your sense of humor. This quality is highly appreciated by men. After all, a good joke is sometimes worth a lot.
Be seductive. Demonstrate your sexual interest in a man, try to diversify your sex, be different. Men traditionally look for a wife not only for a friend, but also for a mistress.
Be proud of your man, encourage him, praise him. Support. If something does not go according to plan, do not cut, do not gloat. Support is what men are looking for in their future life partner. You can be any bad housewife, but don't be bad support. Exclude from the lexicon “I knew it” and “I told you so!”.
Have a romantic dinner. Talk to your man tenderly and optimistically about your plans. Tell him that you are very good with him, that you are crazy about him. Inform about your desire to get married in the future. Don't press, don't be too serious.
Be confident in yourself. Men cannot take women seriously who consider themselves to be nobody. A proud, independent woman is an ideal companion.
