It is quite difficult to find a common language and build relationships with a man who has only one authority - his mother. After all, in order to please his parent, he is ready to sacrifice his personal interests, as well as the interests of his wife, to change plans at lightning speed that have been built for more than one day.
Instructions
Step 1
Make friends with your mother-in-law. This may not be the easiest task, since the husband's mother will most likely see you as a rival at first. But if you are constantly in a hostile relationship with her, the spouse will eventually side with the mother-in-law. Everything can end in divorce, and you are unlikely to achieve this.
Step 2
Try to understand exactly how you need to behave with your mother-in-law so that she does not feel lonely and unnecessary for her son. Show her that she remains a beloved mother who listens to her advice.
Step 3
Stubbornly bring up a real man in him. It is a rather difficult task to re-educate an adult man who, from year to year, is used to living according to the rules dictated by his mother. But still, it's worth fighting for your happiness if you don't want to solve all problems on your own all your life. From day to day, reiterate to your faithful that you are a weak girl who needs his protection. It is possible that in a few years your suggestions will have a positive effect.
Step 4
Admire your spouse. As a rule, mama's little sons are insecure men, so praise more often, admire your spouse, emphasize his masculine features: reliability, quick-wittedness, skillful hands. It is necessary to say this even in the case when the husband does not particularly shine with all the listed characteristics. By constantly encouraging their smallest manifestation, you stimulate him to do more.
Step 5
Become a second mother for your husband. If you have no desire to reeducate your beloved spouse, you can simply accept him as he is. Observe the husband and mother-in-law from the outside, note that the spouse does not like his parent. Take note of this and try not to make the same mistakes that she did. If you have enough energy and strength to take a dependent spouse under your wing, take care of him, then after a while he will gladly run away from mom's close attention to you.
