Quite often we hear the expression my man "mama's son". Let's try to figure out who is he? How to determine? And can you live with it?
Basically, these are men who grew up in a family without a father, deprived of male upbringing. From birth, the boy was raised by his mother or grandmother, pampered and indulged in everything. Therefore, becoming an adult, he remained dependent on his mother, not understanding where her feelings end and him begin. Since childhood, he has been taught that all women are hunters for an apartment and his freedom. Therefore, having matured, he still lives with his parents.
Mom, too, can be understood, she raised a man all her life and now has to give him to another woman. What if the daughter-in-law cannot cope?
There are many psychological portraits, but "mama's son" deserves special interest, since it is very, very difficult not to fall in love with this man. Men of this type are gallant, attentive, well-mannered and know how to please women. But living together with this man will not be easy. Some difficulties await women who are in love with "mama's boy".
He is attached to his mother, as he is used to the fact that from childhood, all decisions for him are made by his mother and responsibility is also on her. She decides what to wear, which club to go to, which specialty to choose, so the mother's word can be decisive in choosing a wife. She should like you.
To make your marriage happy, be prepared, in a sense, replace his mother and be not the only woman, his mother will always come first. He will always compare you.
Tips for women in this situation:
- You will have to make friends with your mother-in-law. Otherwise, one day the husband will take the position of a mother, and here it is not far from divorce.
- Re-educate your man, show that he is a real man. It's difficult, but family happiness is worth it. Constantly let us understand that you are a weak woman who needs care and protection.
- Take your husband under your wing, become his second mother. Take care, protect, guide and eventually the husband will move to you. Many women do it with great pleasure.
Remember that the happiness and tranquility of your family is in your hands.
