The erroneous opinion is that when choosing a potential darling in life, a man relies only on feelings. An important factor that determines the importance of a given girl in a man's life is her inner qualities and outlook on life. To determine this, the guy can arrange a check on the lady.
Test for loyalty and intelligence
There are several methods for studying the qualities of the chosen one. And often the girls do not even know about them.
The first and, perhaps, the most important test is the fidelity test. The loyalty of the chosen one gives the man self-confidence. Sometimes men deliberately ask their acquaintances to look after his girlfriend. The future relationship with her companion depends on whether the lady will succumb to the courtship of other guys. And, in general, men very closely follow the communication of the chosen one with the opposite sex. The main thing in such a situation is to remain true to your choice.
An equally important criterion when choosing a companion is the intelligence of a lady. It is enough to start a conversation about the meaning of life, and immediately everything becomes clear. Is she able to keep the conversation going or will she instantly get bored. It is important to find common topics for conversation, otherwise communication will simply not work out.
A girl shouldn't be stupid. Indeed, in addition to the beautiful appearance of the guy, the inner world of the lady is also interested. So that it is not boring with a silent and uninteresting girl. A girl should not seem too smart either, because the guy next to her will not feel comfortable. Guys are looking for reasonably smart women with an interesting inner world.
Check for thrift and behavior
If a man pursues goals for a serious relationship, then he can arrange a test for the economy of the chosen one. This can relate to both the ability to cook deliciously, as well as her attitude to cleanliness. There is a category of men who attach great importance to cleanliness. They can specifically inspect dishes and other things in a woman's house to check for cleanliness. If the chosen one is also obsessed with cleanliness, like a man, then they will make a good couple.
Behavior testing helps to understand how a girl can behave in various companies, about her addiction to bad habits (alcohol and the use of swearing in the lexicon). This method allows a man to understand whether his chosen one is capable of behaving decently in society or he will be ashamed of her behavior.
All these test methods are used by young people for a reason. This is most likely due to past failed relationships. A man must be sure of the correctness of his choice, that he is ready to call this woman his wife.
