Psychologists say that 13 minutes is enough to turn the head of any man. What's more, researchers at AXA have even prepared a written procedure that works 100 percent.
The first minute is a smile
According to research by psychologists, in two out of three cases, the smile with which a girl meets a man becomes a decisive factor for further communication. A smile not only reflects the elated mood in a woman, but also creates the same mood in a man. A smile expresses goodwill and positivity, improves contact with a man, increases self-confidence, and attracts positive-minded guys.
Second minute - looks
As psychologists have established, it is the appearance of women that men pay attention to in the first place. And not only men - women also closely assess the appearance of a potential partner. The first impression of a person becomes a decisive factor in the question of whether to get to know him or ignore him.
In appearance, besides a well-groomed body and beautiful clothes, there is another important element - smell. An unpleasant smell from a woman or a man speaks of neglect of basic hygiene and in most cases can "kill" any communication.
Third minute - synesthesia
Synesthesia is a phenomenon in which stimulation in one sensory system responds in another sensory system. A certain scent from a woman, a comfortable environment, and many other factors can unexpectedly affect the further development of a relationship.
Moreover, this influence will be as unpredictable as all men are individual. Everyone likes their smells, their types of women, and so on. And as far as these irritants coincide with the tastes of men, the acquaintance will be so successful.
Fourth minute - eye contact
For most men, eye contact is important when meeting a woman. If a girl does not look at a man, he subconsciously begins to think that he is not interesting to her. And, most likely, he will try to find another option.
If a woman looks at a man with an interested look, this encourages him to further acquaintance and develop relationships. But here it is important not to overdo it and not look at the man too closely.
Fifth Minute - Voice
There are different voices. Some charm with their timbre, others cause a negative reaction. A beautiful voice can bewitch the mind, bewitch and dispose any man to a woman. This explains the universal love for songwriters, actors and speakers. A correctly set tone of voice determines 30% of success when meeting, and after special training this indicator can be increased to 100%.
Sixth minute - answers to three questions
Psychologists from Harvard have prepared three questions, the answers to which will help determine the compatibility of partners.
"How do you feel about horror films?" The answer to this question will tell you whether your partner does not mind tickling his nerves, what topics are taboo for him and how he likes to have fun.
"Could you give up everything and live on a desert island?" This question can tell you about the minimum level of comfort a partner is capable of. Some are quite simple huts and bread and water, others definitely need a luxurious home, gastronomic delights and other attributes of a rich life.
"Do you like to do everything alone?" The answer to this question will make it possible to determine the level of independence and independence of the partner, the level of his involvement in social relations. People with different levels of self-sufficiency and social involvement rarely get along together. For some it is enough to call once a week, for another several times a day. One loves noisy companies and often invites friends home, the other prefers to relax alone or only with a loved one.
Seventh minute - mobile phone
Most men do not like women who are constantly distracted by messages on their phones. Especially if it happens on the first date. The same goes for phone calls, which can ruin the most romantic moment. Therefore, before a date, it is better to turn off your phone or put it on silent mode.
Eight minutes is flattery
You need to learn to feel the line between compliments and outright flattery. Men like it when they get cute little compliments, but when it turns into outright flattery, they don't invite such a woman out on a second date.
The ideal option is 2-3 compliments per date. These compliments should be to praise those qualities of a man that he really possesses, and not fictional. Only in this way the compliment will be pleasant to the guy and not turn into flattery.
Ninth minute - work interview
Very often the conversation on a date is reduced to a question-answer format. After that, the date is not remembered as something good. Know how to get any man to talk: talk more about the topics that the interlocutor supports, do not touch on issues of financial well-being and relationships with exes, do not ask questions that can be answered in one word. Use phrases that will help the other person keep the conversation going. Talk to your man as if you are doing something very pleasant, so that he wants to continue communication.
Ten minute - speed
Never rush on your first date. Do not try to tell all the information about yourself, do not try to find out everything about a man. Entering your partner's personal space too quickly causes discomfort. Even in a conversation, do not try to tell everything too quickly. Otherwise, topics for communication will run out just as quickly.
Eleventh minute - humor
The ability to joke and appreciate the humor of the interlocutor is one of the sexiest traits in a woman. A good joke can defuse a sudden, awkward pause in a conversation and amuse the other person. But when communicating with a man, jokes in no case should concern him or the people around him.
Twelfth Minute - Mind
An erudite woman who can keep up a conversation on any topic always attracts men. But, at the same time, not all men love women who are smarter than themselves. Therefore, sometimes it is important for a woman to be able to pretend to be silly and listen attentively to men's reasoning.
Thirteenth minute - second chance
According to statistics, in most cases, men are not limited to just one first date. Even if it turned out to be more than unsuccessful. If you want to go on a second date with a man, you can subtly hint about it.
