For some women, winning the heart of a married man is a game of rivalry. The forbidden fruit, as they say, is sweet. But sometimes the status of a mistress begins to weigh on. It comes to the understanding that your partner is not just a goal for self-affirmation, but the person who is dear and necessary to you. How to conquer it? After all, many married men, despite all the troubles of family life, are afraid of drastic changes.
Instructions
Step 1
Find out as much as possible about his spouse. Her preferences, tastes. Examine the strengths of your rival: what attracts your chosen one to a spouse, and what annoys. Take all this knowledge into service.
Step 2
Show your man how important he is to you. That you cherish him, truly love him. Present yourself to him in the best possible light. By your behavior, actions, prove that life with you is much more harmonious and more pleasant than with his wife. Let him constantly admire you, reach out to you.
Step 3
A man has to believe you. Trust is the most important thing in developing relationships. He should know that he always has a person who will support him not only with the right advice, but also with deeds. That it is with you that he is calm and easy. Other troubles and problems can disappear if there is a reliable rear and support.
Step 4
Take advantage of conflict situations in his family. After all, in love, as in war, all means are good. Let your man know that if he were with you, this would not have happened. That you always understand and support him in everything.
Step 5
In no case do not arrange scenes of jealousy for him, quarrels over insufficient attention to your person. Be more tolerant. If he spent the weekend with his family or, overloaded with work, does not come to you on the appointed day, do not show your frustration and discontent. Look understanding and caring.
Step 6
Do not look for meetings with his wife and do not give away the secret of your relationship. Another scandal in a man's family can negatively affect your relationship with him.
Step 7
Don't put pressure on the man. Remember that it is no less difficult for him than yours from the realization of the existing love triangle, which is not easy to break. Be consistent in your actions. Decisive action is useless, but you should not get used to the status of a secret lover. Slowly push him towards the decisive action. After all, it is very difficult for him to change something dramatically in his life.
