It is believed that a woman should be courted by a man. But in the modern world, many stereotypes break down, women master typically male professions, occupy leadership positions and go into politics. And in a relationship: if a girl falls in love with a guy and does not see reciprocal feelings on his part, she seriously thinks about how to start courtship herself.
Instructions
Step 1
Historically, it was the guy who should invite the girl to the first date. But if it doesn't, take the initiative. Write a note or SMS to your lover and invite him out on a date. While doing this, use reasonable caution and delicacy: many men look with apprehension at such offers from girls.
Step 2
Take a place in the guy's life so that he pays special attention to you. Talk to him about his job, business, or school. Learn to understand his main activity so that you can advise something worthwhile. Share the guy's hobbies. Do not be afraid to make mistakes, do not be afraid to test yourself in something new, perhaps even extreme. Become the kind of person for the guy with whom you can forget about work or talk about it, resting your soul.
Step 3
Start carefully monitoring your appearance. Think about how best to apply makeup, how to quickly and effectively lose extra pounds, how to choose your style of clothing that suits only you. The goal is to make the guy look at you in a completely different way. He should want to invite you to rest, to a restaurant and even to business negotiations.
Step 4
Think over your behavior with the guy. If a girl herself decided to look after, this does not mean that she should behave like a man. Remain the same fragile, vulnerable, defenseless, feminine. Always be in a good mood, cheerful and joyful. The guy should enjoy your company, but not guess that you are courting him. Never! Leave it a secret from him.
Step 5
Give your man gifts and tokens. Congratulate on the holidays, praise his new hairstyle, new costume, admire his achievements and positive character traits. As souvenirs and gifts, try to choose inexpensive, but really necessary things for the guy. A smoker can be presented with a stylish lighter, romance - movie tickets, a lover of computer games - an original computer mouse, etc. If you want to give something really expensive, time the gift for some big holiday or significant event in your life together. For example, for the anniversary of their acquaintance.
