You corresponded and maybe even called back with your virtual friend, talked about everything in the world, looked at the photos, and suddenly decided that you wanted to meet. And then questions arise in my head: how to prepare for the first date, what to wear, where to go and what to talk about?
Instructions
Step 1
Choose a suitable place for your first date. It should not be too noisy and crowded. At the same time, you shouldn't choose deserted or boring places for the first date. Think over the route in advance so that later you will not think for a long time where to go next. The organization of the first meeting, as a rule, lies with the man. However, if you wish, you can consult with the girl and choose the option offered by her.
Step 2
Try not to be late for your appointment. Remember that only a woman can stay, for a man it is indecent. Punctuality testifies to upbringing and personal culture. Arriving at a meeting on time means treating the other person with respect.
Step 3
When choosing clothes for the first date, do not forget about the saying "They meet by their clothes …". If you are going to the theater, do not try to wear a tracksuit and sneakers. Conversely, if the appointment is in the park, you should not wear evening dress. When choosing clothes, try to avoid dullness and routine. The first impression of the sight of a person should be pleasant and joyful. And at the same time, you should look the way you looked in the photo posted on the web. This is necessary so that you are recognized when you meet and not be disappointed in the dissimilarity of the original and the photo.
Step 4
The first date should not be too long, so that, on the one hand, no one gets tired, and on the other, make you want to meet again. Don't jump to conclusions about the person after the first date. Perhaps you were prevented from getting to know each other by tension and shyness, which is very characteristic of the first meeting.
Step 5
Think ahead about the topic of the conversation. After all, the first date is not a monologue about yourself and your life. Surely in the process of correspondence, you learned about what your virtual friend is fond of. And if the area of his interests is unknown to you, try to broaden your horizons before the meeting so that you have something to talk about. Tune in to listen more to the other person, and not talk about yourself. Unpleasant and difficult topics of conversation should be avoided, such as politics, crime, money, past relationships.
Step 6
Be prepared for the fact that the person you knew only what he told about himself will not be at all what you imagined him to be. Very often, the image that arises in the imagination in the process of communication via the Internet differs from what you will see when you meet this person in reality. The main thing is to understand that you will meet someone you do not know. Do not take into account your correspondence, profile, and photos. You have to get to know the person again.
