Choosing a man, a woman pays attention to his generosity - how often he gives flowers, takes him to a restaurant and makes pleasant surprises. However, if at the beginning of a relationship, gifts can pour like a horn of plenty, with the development of a romance, men become less attentive.
It is easy to understand the behavior of men. When they conquer a woman, they are ready for any tricks to achieve reciprocity. Falling in love turns his head, and the man does not count money, buying bouquets, teddy bears and jewelry. But over time, the passion dies down. A man begins to be more sensitive to his budget, and his beloved does not seem to need to be conquered anymore. But women are rarely satisfied with this situation - after all, they always want to feel attention and receive a pleasant gift. There are several ways to do this.
The easiest way to achieve what you want is before any holiday - a birthday, New Year, or anniversary of a relationship. Often a man himself asks what his beloved would like to receive as a gift. Here it is important not to get lost and not be shy, saying that you do not need to give anything. It is best to draw up a list of desired gifts in advance and give it before the cherished day. Then, on the one hand, the gift will be a surprise for you, and on the other, you will definitely get what you want.
At the very beginning of a relationship, you do not need to show yourself overly independent - insist on paying the bills separately in a cafe, paying for a taxi and going to the cinema yourself. Men love weak and fragile women.
If all the celebrations are not coming soon, and you really want to get a gift, you can act with hints. For example, sighing to admire a beautiful ring in a magazine or defiantly look at a catalog of fashionable clothes. If your man is quick-witted, he will understand what you are missing. The main thing here is not to overplay with emotions and acting.
Another way is to casually mention a familiar couple, where a man constantly makes gifts. You can casually mention the new mink coat that your husband gave your friend. Or tell us what an interesting journey the neighbors went on. This psychological move will turn on the spirit of competition in your man. He will not want to appear less successful than other men, and will definitely make you happy with a gift.
If a man categorically refuses to give gifts, even after direct hints, perhaps he is not all right with his finances. Better wait a little.
There is one more technique. It is the most simple and consists in directly telling a man about his desire. The stronger sex often does not understand and does not like hints. But, of course, you should not express your desire in a demanding tone. It is better to talk about it in a cozy atmosphere, over a cup of aromatic coffee or after a relaxing massage.
Whichever technique you choose, there are a few rules to keep in mind. Always focus on your man's financial situation. If you have been dating him for a long time, then you should already understand at least the approximate level of his income. Demanding gifts beyond your means will only make a man angry. Decide for yourself what is more important to you - a relationship or expensive gifts. If you want to receive gifts from a man, be prepared to also give something in return. It is not necessary to give your loved one expensive clothes or perfume too. It will be enough to tell him affectionate words more often, feed him a delicious dinner and create coziness in the house. After receiving a gift, be sure to thank the man. If you don't like the present, do not show it under any circumstances. Be sure to use the donated item - often wear the purchased dress, put a new figurine in a prominent place and always take the donated tablet with you.
