Summer is a great time for romantic dates, because it is much easier and cheaper to come up with and implement scenarios of exciting and original events than in the cold season.
A date is organized in order not only to have a good time, but also to get to know your partner better. This is the time for you to concentrate on communicating with each other. Not all traditional dating helps a person show their true character. You can have a great time on the rooftop or on a picnic, watch an open-air movie, go to a summer restaurant, but it is much more interesting to organize such a date, where your partner will show not only his positive qualities, but also his shortcomings. Summer provides many more opportunities for organizing original and not boring dates than winter and autumn. You can spend time interestingly together and practically not spend money at the same time. Planning and preparing original dates will take more time and effort than buying a movie ticket, but your spouse will appreciate your efforts.
A tour of the places from your childhood
Such a date will allow your partner to get to know you more deeply, to understand the prerequisites for the formation of your character. Telling stories from childhood helps to strengthen relationships, make them more trusting. This idea is not suitable for a first or second date, but it will diversify the lives of people who have been in romantic relationships for a long time and have tried all the classic dating options.
Make an itinerary of places that are important to you: a school, a meeting place for a teenage company, a best friend's house, a sports ground, a summer cottage, a secret hut in a grove. Think about what you will tell or show at each location. Tell a funny or sad story from the life of your class or your company, play an outdoor game for children. You can bring your partner to your parental home and showcase things that you collect, old photographs, clothes, drafts of poetry, or even fragments of a personal diary. Think of the places where you skipped classes, were sad alone, met the sunset and visit them with your loved one. Your partner can also share their stories if they feel like it.
Camping with a tent
An alternative is to have a picnic with a warm blanket and a basket full of fruits and berries. But if you think you are ready to learn to overcome difficulties together, then go camping for the night.
How will your partner react to a mosquito infestation or sudden downpour? This test will show how your soul mate will behave in situations if difficult life circumstances come. Some will throw tantrums, while others will take responsibility and solve problems judiciously. You will be able to demonstrate your skills in preparing a camping meal or navigating the forest. And your partner may give you a new reason to admire him.
Ask in advance about your partner's hiking experience. If he has never taken part in long trips to nature, it is better to choose a place near the city for your trip so that you can quickly return home if something goes wrong.
Horror quest in reality
If watching a horror movie together does not cause strong negative feelings in your half, then you should try to help each other overcome your real fears. Tell your partner to list things or things that scare him. You, too, honestly write what you are afraid of. You should get a list of several items.
Using this data, work out a route that will help you overcome your greatest fears. If you are afraid of dogs, go to an animal shelter and take a large dog for an hour's walk. Take a walk on the roof of a skyscraper or jump with a parachute if you're afraid of heights. Visit an exotic animal exhibit to get rid of your fear of snakes and spiders. People who are afraid of public speaking can be encouraged to sing a complex song at karaoke or read a monologue loudly in a crowded place. Overcoming difficulties together is very close. The release of adrenaline into the blood will make you remember this event for a long time.
This dating option will also test your partner for negative qualities. Will he comfort and cheer you up when you're scared, or will he chide and laugh at your weaknesses? This dating scenario is suitable for both couples who have been together for a long time, and for those who are recently in a romantic relationship.
A trip to the village
The village can also be a great place for a romantic meeting, despite the fact that it only evokes in many people the image of beds and old things. Organization of a date in the village is an opportunity to learn together to create coziness with your own hands, as well as a budget and relaxing vacation.
Invite your partner to visit your village home. If you do not have a summer residence, ask for a visit to your relatives. Be sure to tell your family that you are planning a romantic date so they don't bother you. You don't have to tell your partner about this idea in advance. Tell him that you want to introduce him to his grandmother or show him your former room. On the territory near the house, you can create a romantic atmosphere in advance: put a table, decorate with flowers or other natural materials. You will be comfortable on your territory, no one will rush you to leave in the morning, as it will be in the case of renting a holiday home. You can light a fire, cook meat or vegetables on the fire, sing a song with a guitar, make a vegetable or fruit salad. An unusual way to spend time together is to plant trees together that will grow and develop along with your relationship for many years.
Street art creation
How about creating a piece of art together? The quality of the result will depend on your artistic skills and abilities, but you can try anyway. Choose a wall in advance for your drawing. This could be a fencing in an abandoned area or a wall of a building to be demolished. It is prudent not to spoil the houses that are in use and the objects that are located in crowded places.
Before you start painting graffiti, draw a sketch. It can be a phrase, an image of a specific object, or just an abstract pattern. If you don't know how to draw, you can use a stencil that you choose together. To create a drawing using a stencil, spray paints are ideal, for hand drawing - graffiti markers or paint in cans, which are applied with brushes and rollers. Care must be taken in advance to select protection for the eyes, respiratory tract and skin. Wear respirators, goggles and gloves when applying paint to the wall. It's good if you bring extra clothes with you that you won't mind getting dirty. To make the drawing bright and persistent, take care of the preliminary priming of the walls. For this purpose, water-based paint or enamel is suitable.
The process of making graffiti is time consuming but very exciting. The drawing you have made will delight you for a long time, and the memories of joint adventures will give you positive emotions.
