It is known that there are significant differences between passion, closeness and love. These signs of attraction of heterosexual people who are not LGBT according to Trump's classification (the general public learned about the meaning of this abbreviation precisely from the lips of the mentioned source) or "perverts" in Putin's way (here's the opposition of systems in their transposition on a sexual basis!), Are by those steps of the ascent of two fiery hearts up the ladder of love to their absolute unity in the romantic hierarchy.
So, “chikulya” with the figure of “guitar” (traditional Latin type) has replaced “barbie” (the Hollywood standard of beauty of a bygone era). Now carriers of such modern charms, provided that there is a more or less acceptable face in the kit (at least a minimum of likability, which, by the way, is determined individually), cause due attraction in the opposite sex.
The designated first stage (passion) of gender gravity (in the opposite direction "husband-woman", this rule also works, because this is not a nipple system in mechanics) is ready to be implemented at the physiological (lowest) level almost immediately. The moral attitudes of society, the physiological readiness of partners and everyday acceptability (a number of more insignificant factors may also take place) act as restrictions. That is, intercourse contains a pure set of instincts and behavioral cliches, which at this stage is fully consistent with the traditional fauna of the planet.
Intimacy is the next and more difficult stage in the relationship of opposite sexes. This is where the concept of "soul mate" and "soul mate" becomes crucial. Finding an ideal partner in this aspect of gender fusion is very difficult, and sometimes impossible due to natural reasons. After all, genetic predisposition, habitat and heart settings, formed exclusively individually, create such a unique mental organization of a person, which is very difficult to synchronize with your sexual partner. It’s also good if one (more loyal) tries to harmonize relations at the expense of his own plasticity, or a more persistent one will progressively and firmly subordinate the other to his rules of the game. And if these methods do not lead to fatal consequences of an explosion of accumulated tension in relations, then the result can be called acceptable, but not ideal.
It is better not to test the patience of another, but to immediately try to measure with your spiritual indicator the degree of depth of the inner world of a potential partner. It is important to understand that for a long-term relationship, this qualitative characteristic is of the most significant importance. There are plenty of examples when love occurs precisely after prolonged contact and a more thorough knowledge of each other with a seemingly unsuccessful first attempt at rapprochement (such a date without mutual sympathy). This is not love at first sight, which is usually confused with passion (physiology usually rules in ignorant individuals), but it definitely guarantees a lasting union.
And, finally, comes the last stage of relationships with the maximum power of gender gravity, called love throughout the ages. This ideal hypostasis of heterosexual contact guarantees a strong, harmonious and happy bond of loving people. It turns out that love is not some ephemeral concept from the folk epic, more like a miraculous touch of the supernatural world, but a three-component substance. Moreover, with sexual attraction, there may even be a lack of spiritual harmony, but on the contrary, it is excluded. It is the spiritual aspect that will close its eyes to physical flaws, while psychological incompatibility (mental or spiritual connection) cannot be leveled out due to the desire of the parties alone.
In other words, great sex can never guarantee a happy relationship. For some reason, modern young people are betting on him. Such tireless workers in a romantic field spent a week in bed and decided that they could no longer live without each other. This is where hard labor begins.
How to protect yourself from such a misfortune ?! Everything is very simple, as it always happens in worldly wisdom. Do not rush to draw historical conclusions! And in general, the rule "forewarned is forearmed" has not been canceled. And the gender connection, even the happiest, is based on the opposition of the parties, because belonging to different-sex categories implies a lot of nuances. It is mentioned here about the relevance of "armed" in the context of basic reasoning. It is not for nothing that an epic source said allegorically that all men are from Mars, and women are from Venus.
Ignorance about gender relations mentioned here is eloquently reflected in modern statistics. Even with “shadow” relationships (civil marriages have definitely invented immoral types!), The percentage of divorces and remarriages is off scale, which is reflected in the most important aspect of society - fertility. By the way, if the population of the Motherland were comparable to the United States, for example, as it was historically laid down in ancient times, then in all economic indicators we would have an approximate parity. After all, a country is not a state or even a territory, but a population!
The thematic conclusion suggests itself. The most important thing in a happy life is love! Even God commanded it. So looking for it in pants and associating it with butterflies in the stomach is not recommended. It will take time and work to get the desired result. But the reward is appropriate - a happy life! And who can boast of this today ?! The question is rhetorical, since the concept of depression is now familiar to most of the world's population. And the point is not in economic problems, which have always been and will always be, at least because of the greedy nature of power at all times, but in their own ignorance. Everyone is able to build their own world, in which there will be happiness and prosperity, since these concepts are in complete harmony with each other.
And for those who are accustomed to strict punctuality and draw conclusions exclusively in the "do once, do two" format, the following summary can be formulated:
- Do not jump to conclusions after the first sex with a partner;
- The gender antipode should, at least, be from the same social environment as the "thirsty to be happy";
- The love test should reflect complete dedication or loving people will never put selfish needs above the interests of their partner.
