When you have been dating a man for a long time and begin to feel that your relationship is becoming less emotional, passion gives way to affection, then you start to worry. It begins to seem to you that you no longer excite him as much as in the first days of your acquaintance, that he began to give you less flowers and take you to restaurants less often. You are tormented by doubts and, of course, you want to know if he still loves you and how deeply his feelings are.
Instructions
Step 1
Never create artificial situations in the hope of testing his feelings - do not call him for help when it is not needed, and do not report your non-existent fatal illness. Once the deception is exposed, you risk losing the person forever. There are situations in life by which you can determine the depth of his feelings with a high degree of confidence.
Step 2
If your man constantly remembers his former girlfriends, not paying attention to the fact that it is unpleasant for you, or constantly breaks his promises and at the same time does not consider it necessary to call and inform you about the change in his plans, then this is worth thinking about. Most likely, he does not really care about your feelings, he thinks only of himself and he is not going to reckon with you.
Step 3
A loving person can always be recognized by the care with which he surrounds his woman - he is ready to support her in any situation, to protect her from any trouble. He will care if she is dressed warmly and the reasons for her bad mood. With all his behavior, he will show sincere care and attention. This will show up even in small things: a warm scarf, forcibly dressed before going out, or in a breakfast that was prepared while you were sleeping in the morning.
Step 4
If he introduced you to his friends, and you often visit them with him, if he introduced you to your parents, then this also speaks of his serious attitude towards you and that he already considers you a part of his life. The fact that he let you in there may be indirectly evidenced by the fact that you are admitted to his computer, to his apartment, to his plans for life, when instead of “I” he says “we”.
Step 5
And if they call you to get married and ask to give birth to a child, confirming the words with action - the desire to earn money and provide for the family, then there is no need to doubt - they love you, and you try to make him also feel your reciprocal feeling, your love and faith in him, which make it stronger.