Relationships between lovers can cool down for various reasons. Moreover, one of the parties can decide to break up. For example, a girl became disillusioned with a boyfriend, it became clear to her that she was not dreaming of such a life partner, that you could not create a happy family with him. Nevertheless, despite the fact that their relationship began to hurt her, a lot of negative emotions, love still glimmers in her heart. She wants to quickly forget about the guy, stop loving him, delete him from her life, but she cannot.
Instructions
Step 1
Under any plausible pretexts, reduce your meetings and contacts to a minimum. And then after a while stop them altogether. Do not take it at home and do not go to it yourself. Avoid visiting places where you are most likely to meet him, even if you have to sacrifice trips to your favorite cafes, bars, clubs, etc. It's worth it.
Step 2
Of course, it is impossible to live as a recluse, almost under house arrest. And your boyfriend will probably try to resume communication. Politely, but firmly, let him know that you are not happy about this and he is wasting time. Decisively refuse the offer to meet and explain. It is not necessary to stoop to ridicule, insults, of course. Speak dryly and very briefly. “I have no time, I have an important business,” for example. In the end, the guy will realize that this is not your momentary whim, not a strange whim, but your final decision.
Step 3
A good and effective technique is to remember all the insults, troubles, misunderstandings that happened to you because of this guy. Surely he did not behave in the most impeccable manner. While you were truly in love with him, you willingly forgave it, but now the time has come to remember and wind yourself up: “I did so much good for him, I loved him so much, and he is … ungrateful!”. Stretch your memory by remembering all his shortcomings and sins.
Step 4
Get rid of everything that reminds you of this person decisively. It is, of course, impossible to "clean" the memory, but to remove from sight his gifts, general photographs, souvenirs, etc. more than real. Throwing them in the trash may not be worth it, but tucking them away in a closet or closet is a must.
Step 5
Finally, remember that a holy place is never empty. Since this particular representative of the stronger sex did not suit you, try to find a more worthy one who will truly love you. As soon as you feel exactly the same feeling, the old love will be forgotten.
