"For a marriage to be happy, husband and wife must be of the same dough!" - so instructed the eccentric beauty Scarlett her father Gerald in the novel "Gone with the Wind". Indeed, if young people are at least somewhat similar to each other, then this already speaks in favor of strong and long-term relationships. Of course, there are exceptions, but rarely! What should be guided by a loving couple who wants to build a strong, reliable relationship?
Instructions
Step 1
Some young couples confuse concepts such as "falling in love" and "love". As a rule, falling in love passes quite quickly, and this is where it all ends, that is, quarrels, reproaches begin, and ultimately parting. But "love" later passes into the next stage - "respect", "mutual understanding". Hence the conclusion follows: after you have met a person, and it seems to you that your connection is strong, try to get to know him better, do not rush into the "pool" with your head.
Step 2
If the marriage was preceded by a rather long period of courtship, "grinding" the characters, then the relationship between a man and a woman may well be reliable and strong.
Step 3
If you and a young man have different attitudes about sex, then your relationship most likely will not be strong. You can sincerely love each other, treat each other with mutual respect, but this cannot fully replace the lack of harmony in your intimate life. For example, if you are shy, restrained by nature, and even received a puritanical upbringing, then sooner or later your husband will almost certainly "pull to the side" for thrill-seeking.
Step 4
Well, if you get mutual pleasure from sex, then the situation is exactly the opposite! Then the relationship is likely to be strong. Ask your loved one what he wants, maybe he doesn't like something in terms of sex. Feel free to talk about intimate topics, be sincere with each other.
Step 5
But what if, sexually, there is complete harmony between a man and a woman, but at the same time there is absolute dissimilarity in literally everything? Then, alas, one has to remember the wise words of Gerald, addressed to his daughter. What kind of strong and reliable relationship can we talk about if a woman has completely different tastes and habits? Even harmony in an intimate life will not help here.
Step 6
If you have at least a little common interests and hobbies, then you can safely count on a strong, long-term relationship.
