What if the feelings are over? If you don't want to date this person again? If you fell in love with someone else and you need to break off your previous relationship? Simple everyday advice with a psychological background can help in resolving these issues.
Instructions
Step 1
You need to explain yourself as soon as it becomes clear that your attitude towards the guy has changed, and you do not want to continue to meet with him, much less live. You are very lucky if the boy turns out to be intelligent and takes everything that happened for granted. But this rarely happens, so be prepared for a rather lengthy showdown.
Step 2
There is no need to obscure, it is necessary to explain everything as it is. Deception has never led anyone to goodness. Waste time out of false pity for the guy who loves you is not worth it. But you cannot offend a person in the best feelings either. Try to avoid the scandal. After all, not so long ago you also loved (or you thought you loved) this guy.
Step 3
Arguments must be "hard". Your simple “I don’t want” can be regarded as a woman's whim, and with your inarticulate behavior you will provoke the completely unfounded hope of your former lover that you can still fix it, and resume the relationship. Therefore, clearly explain the points: "We cannot meet with you anymore because (further - according to the list)."
Step 4
Don't talk to your new friend about your old relationship. In no case do not interfere with your old showdown with your new passion. Of course, a new friend will be on your side, but why should he know about what came before him? In love with a woman, but why give him a reason for this? Forgive, he will forgive, but will he forget? And will your rude words and inappropriate behavior towards your ex-boyfriend turn against you in the future? Do you need it?
Step 5
Don't try to be friends. After the breakup, at least for the first time, it is better not to date your ex-boyfriend at all in order to avoid any misunderstandings. This is useful for business, because everyone knows: "Out of sight - out of mind."
