Often, dissatisfaction in family life pushes a woman to commit adultery. And few people think before embarking on all the grave, to what consequences all this can lead. But now, finally, the double life has already exhausted her so much that the woman begins to understand that she must choose one person. But how to part with your lover so that later it would not be excruciatingly painful?
It is necessary
- Tenacity
- Patience
- Self-control
Instructions
Step 1
The easiest way to leave is to leave in English, without saying goodbye. Just disappear from his life. Not answering calls, not coming to meetings, ignoring all his attempts to meet. As they say, out of sight - out of mind. It will be easier for you to get through this breakup if you don't cling to old relationships. Be persistent - do not indulge yourself. You have decided that, then so be it. To make it easier to endure the separation, find something to do: devote more time to children, work, art. Finally, try to improve your family life. Look for the reason for your betrayal. Perhaps it is worth trying to somehow improve marital relations. You will now have much more free time. So spend it to your advantage.
Step 2
But the first option is only suitable if your lover is not an impulsive person. Otherwise, you run the risk of making yourself a lot of trouble. Of course, it's best not to have any relationship with this type of man at all. But as they say, we are all strong in hindsight. If your partner is nevertheless neurotic in nature, it is worthwhile to somehow prepare him for the upcoming breakup. Try to find arguments that will help you understand your decision. Alone with yourself, you can even rehearse the upcoming explanation a little. Try to structure the conversation in a way that makes your partner feel like your relationship is at an impasse. They no longer bring not only you, but also him no satisfaction. Further communication will only torment both of you. It's time to leave to find something new. After all, you can remain good friends without returning to a closer relationship.
Step 3
It can be difficult to predict in advance a man's reaction to an offer to end a relationship. It will be good if he understands everything and lets you go with a calm heart. But do not forget that such an offer can greatly anger him. Better to prepare all escape routes in advance. Think carefully when choosing a meeting place. It is best to meet in neutral territory so that in case of an aggressive reaction, you can leave.
Step 4
And you should not be very indignant if, in a fit of resentment, a man says a lot of unpleasant things to you. Most likely, this was expressed only out of anger. After all, you yourself in a similar situation can behave in a similar way. Try to understand and forgive him. This will make it easier for both of you.
