It's fun and comfortable to have a relationship without commitment. There is no need to report on the evening spent the night before, report on the upcoming event, introduce your partner to friends and relatives. Feelings such as jealousy, anxiety, fear, and responsibility are automatically swept aside. But what could turn out to be such a relationship?
Of course, this is an easy connection, where no one owes anything to anyone. There is no place for dissatisfied claims, scenes of jealousy, high-pitched conversations and tantrums. Rather, it is an elementary temporary phenomenon, useful for maintaining sex life.
Often, such a union helps to avoid feelings of despondency and blues associated with a recent breakup of love relationships. And simply, it's better to have at least such a relationship than to be alone. It's nice to have confidence in the schedule of meetings, in the consistency of the sexual partner. Financial savings play a role and, which is very important for many, the preservation of personal freedom.
But is everything really as beautiful as it seems? It often happens that one of the parties begins to feel something more in relation to the partner. But realizing that in response to his confession he will hear, albeit a warm, but refusal, he does not dare to open up and begins to languish and experience discomfort from a relationship without obligations. Those same claims, anxiety, feelings of jealousy and resentment appear. As a rule, such a union falls apart. Trying to keep it somehow is just to prolong the torture.
Over time, thoughts about the lack of perspective come. After all, few people want to spend the rest of their lives alone, without having a truly close and caring life partner next to them. Who, in spite of everything, will always be there, support, share all the sorrows and sorrows equally.
Gradually, there is a feeling of uselessness and emptiness in the relationship. Boredom progresses in the absence of emotions characteristic of the state of love. There is not that feeling of lightness, flight, when wings have grown behind your back, when you want to hug the whole world and shout to the whole world that you are in love and happy.
Often experienced such a period leads to the idea of a full-fledged family life, based primarily on love, which is absent in a relationship without obligations.
