The overwhelming majority of parents are faced with the disobedience of the child. Neither threats nor persuasion help. To prevent bad behavior from developing into a serious problem, you should know some of the intricacies of parenting.
Instructions
Step 1
Be consistent. If you have established rules in the family that the child should not break, stand your ground. Do not let your daughter go through your jewelry and makeup when you are in a good mood, and scold her for it the next day after your mood has soured.
Step 2
Don't talk too much. Adults know a similar psychological trick: when the boss for half an hour in strong expressions explains to you how wrong you are, you can imagine that you are sitting on the beach, and the boss's swearing drowns out the noise of the waves and the cries of seagulls. A trick like this will save you stress. But if you yell at the child, long and delightfully reproaching him for the broken vase, the kid will also "turn off". Try to keep your claims concise and accessible.
Step 3
The more prohibitions a child has, the more opportunities to break them. Try to create a friendly and supportive environment for your baby. Help him become friends with a company with which you will not be afraid to leave the little person for a walk, remove chemicals on the mezzanine, and you do not have to forbid the child to open the closet. The fewer inhibitions, the fewer reasons for bad behavior.
Step 4
Don't ask your child to immediately follow your orders. Imagine your spouse saying to you: "Quit your business and quickly cook me pilaf!" Surely you would not like such command and disregard for your own activities. Do not allow yourself such behavior in relation to the baby. Ask him to clean up the dishes after he finishes painting, or to put the scattered toys during the day.
Step 5
Trust your child. If relatives gave him an expensive railroad for his birthday, you shouldn't go after him and remind him that the toy should be handled carefully. After the baby breaks her and realizes that he can no longer play with her, he himself will reflect on his behavior and the next time he will be more careful with things and without your reminder.
Step 6
No matter how you raise your child, sometimes he will still disobey and be capricious. Perfect "training", as in the case of a dog, will not help you. Be prepared for this and take this fact into account even during the planning of the baby.
