It is important for parents to treat correctly the selection of a nanny for a child - it is this person who will influence the formation of the baby's personality.
Having decided to have a child, not all young parents understand the responsibility of this step. The impression is that in a child they see not the toy that all friends have already appeared and “I want the same,” or they even give birth just because it is supposed to be. Not everyone immediately has an idea of how difficult and responsible work is to raise a child, and in fact it will need not only to be done, but also to try not to make mistakes.
The whole future of the child depends precisely on what kind of upbringing the parents will give him. And at the age of three years, the formation of a personality is just taking place, and a responsible attitude to raising a child may help you do without unnecessary problems in the future.
If the financial capabilities of the family allow a young mother not to work, most often she will prefer to take care of the child herself in order to educate him in accordance with her own concepts. Another option is when the woman has decided that by earning money, she can do more useful for the child. If it is impossible to leave the baby with close relatives, the parents try to find a nanny who could spend with the child while the parents work.
Despite the fact that there are many offers of this service, it is not so easy to find a good responsible person. Even when these qualities are at their best, parents need to think about the fact that an early age is important for the formation of a baby's personality, and an outsider in general will influence him. Working parents will have much less time to fully participate in the development of the character of the baby. No matter how carefully the selection of domestic personnel is carried out, it is necessary to proceed more from the needs and interests of the child.
Ask yourself, what qualities would you like to develop in your child? An active and restless kid will be approached by a person who can develop purposefulness and perseverance in him. A too strict nanny will keep the child in one place when he wants to play, and this is not very good for his psyche. So that the child does not become withdrawn, uncommunicative, and aggression does not arise in behavior, a nanny must be chosen who is understanding and attentive. On the contrary, a strict nanny is more suitable for a quiet baby, who will teach him to be more demanding of himself.
If the teacher and the pupil have the same temperament and biorhythms, it will be wonderful. In this version, the child's talent and his capabilities will be directed in the right direction, and with proper upbringing, a serious, intelligent, responsible person will grow out of the child.
