In the relationship of loving people, there are periods of cooling feelings and distance from each other. In this situation, you should not take drastic measures, make scandals with addiction, and leave with resentment. It is important to start working on the restoration of previous relationships in time, to understand yourself and the situation and take the first step towards reviving feelings.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to understand what could have influenced the changes, what the relationship has been like recently, whether there have been conflicts. Frequent quarrels and reproaches leave a negative mark on the soul and move away from a person. You could be disappointed in the chosen one or leave disappointment in his heart.
Step 2
Deal with your feelings and honestly answer the question: "What do I dislike about this person?" You can write down the answers: this will make it easier to analyze the situation. After you sort out the claims and grievances, think about what from the received list you can change in a person, and what you need to put up with.
Step 3
Try to remember all the good things that were in the relationship: those moments in life when it was pleasant to be around the person. Good memories will help revive feelings for the chosen one.
Step 4
Try to call your loved one for a frank conversation, which should take place in a calm atmosphere in a peaceful tone, without making claims, statements and reproaches. Try to understand the feelings and problems of the other person. Perhaps his distance is due to external factors that have a strong influence on the psycho-emotional mood. These can be problems at work, conflicts with relatives, etc.
Step 5
Take the first step towards rapprochement. You may need to be alone. You can go out of town together or to another quiet place. Temporarily isolate yourself from everyday problems and external irritants. Allow yourself to enjoy socializing together.
Step 6
Try to change something in yourself - this applies to both the appearance and the internal state. When you come home from work, do not fence off your computer monitor, but just sit next to it. In the morning, take some time to ask your soul mate about the day ahead, kiss gently before leaving, and wish you all the best. During the day, call and say a few words about how bored and looking forward to meeting you. Sometimes, to maintain love, there are not enough little things in which love and care for a person are manifested.
