There are men with such a temperament that he is able to ruin the whole life together with him. To prevent this from happening, already in the first months of acquaintance, it is necessary to better look at the potential life partner. All signs of a negative nature are manifested in one way or another during this period. You just need to watch and listen carefully.
Windy romantic or swindler
The first sign of a man of this type is a marriage proposal too soon. Many will say that this is very romantic. But in life, it is not only impractical, but also dangerous. A person who understands all the responsibility that will fall on him after creating a family will not propose to an almost unfamiliar girl under the influence of the first impression about her. Most likely, this man is not yet mature enough and is a little in childhood. And this behavior is also typical of fraudsters who have a strictly limited time that they can spend on the next victim and therefore it must be "turned around" as soon as possible.
Casting aside suspicions of fraud, we can safely assume that a man who can so easily take this t a serious step can just as easily abandon his plans, "turn on the reverse". Most likely, he is not familiar with a serious relationship, is not ready to overcome obstacles and fight difficulties. He can easily give many promises, make the right impression on a woman and repeatedly assure her of his reliability.
The life experience of many shows that truly reliable people are stingy with promises. Before making a promise, they need to be fully confident that they can deliver on what they promised. Anyway, they often keep promises than give them.
Alcoholic, gambling addict or drug user
Many men willingly drink beer after work or play fashionable "tanks", while remaining good husbands and family men. The main thing is that there is no dependence on the source of pleasure.
People with an addictive personality disorder often become addicted to games, alcohol or drugs and it is impossible to live with such individuals. Even if they someday "tie up", they will still have some negative character traits: they will prefer to get away from difficulties, instead of overcoming them, and also will not be able to bear responsibility for their actions.
Psychologists say that one of the clear signs of any addiction may be the fact that a man is about himself in a passive voice or using impersonal turns of speech. For example, "It happened", "I was driven", "Unlucky" or "I was forced." In other words, he looks for the cause of his failures in everything except himself. Subsequently (if not now) these men will begin to drink more and more often, gamble or try drugs.
Psychotherapists say that addicted people are also peculiar and confess their love. Phrases: “I can't live without you”, “Only you are my happiness” or “Only together with you I will be happy” indicate that this subject subconsciously recognizes his dependence on another (from you). Subsequently, he will certainly accuse you of playing or drinking.
Even if such a type promises to give up his addiction for you, later he will explain with you his return to his habit.
Chronic loser
Signs of such a type are constant complaints about life, about circumstances, about fate, about relatives and friends, about his uncomprehending environment, and so on. He has everyone to blame for everything: from the president to his neighbor, from historical injustice to bad weather. Psychologists say that people with such character traits are very difficult to correct, since it is beneficial for them to complain about everything and everyone, this is their life credo.
It is useless to feel sorry for such types. They will never be comforted, they will simply find a new reason for suffering.
Even if you regret such a person, support, provide him with real help, he will not reciprocate. In response to complaints, the loser will only scandalize, accuse you and take offense. And then he will find someone to complain to and about you.
Misogynist
To identify a misogynist man, all you have to do is ask him to talk about his exes. Misogynists will certainly speak about them with rudeness and anger, insult them, at the same time insulting all women in the world. By doing this, he will show his attitude towards the weaker sex in general.
Of course, he can deify one single woman, provided that she has a certain set of qualities that he likes. But he does not recognize the rest, who “do not reach” his ideal of women, as people.
If he also let slip that he hit, pushed, threatened or humiliated, putting her in her place in this way, one of his ex, you should immediately say goodbye to him. Subsequently, he will allow himself the same treatment with any woman. And everything that he accuses his exes of will be addressed to the current ones as well.
Ham
Disrespect for other people, for their interests, opinions and personal space is considered the most real rudeness. This sign is the result of bad education. And since an adult man hardly lends itself to re-education, he will later be rude to his partner. Up to the use of force, including against children.
During the courtship period, this will most likely not manifest. But a boor can give out trifles: he will be late for a date and will not warn about it, he will often forget requests, he will climb with kisses when the partner does not want it, overcome female resistance in pursuit of his momentary desires.
You can also recognize a cad by the way he treats the people around him: with the staff in a restaurant, with a taxi driver, with people in line. Especially well the boor betrays his behavior with those with whom he conflicts. An educated person, even in this situation, will not cross certain boundaries. A ham will only be polite when he feels good or when he needs it.
Tyrant
The future tyrant is betrayed by reasoning about what a woman, in his opinion, should. More often than not, he needs a cook, a servant and an executor of his orders. During the courtship period, the tyrant will respect your personal life and opinion, but he will certainly save his desires and preferences to himself.
And this should make you wary. A normal person will respect strangers, but he will also ask to respect him. He will listen to the desires of a woman, but he will also talk about his own in order to come to an agreement. A normal person is not afraid of conflicts, but tries to resolve them within the framework of mutual respect.
A man prone to tyranny will specifically avoid conflicts, hide his desires, waiting for loved ones to "guess" about them. He does not believe in the possibility of reaching an agreement taking into account the interests of both parties, at first he will act only taking into account the interests of the woman, and then he will demand to take into account only his interests.
But the surest sign of a tyrant is the desire to control everything. At first it will look like a manifestation of care, then - love and jealousy, in the future it will grow into tyranny.
Womanizer
An enthusiastic collector of women immediately admits to another girl that she is the most beautiful of all the women he has seen. Womanizer betrays the ability to look after beautifully, success with the fairer sex. He sincerely believes that he can seduce any girl.
For womanizers, relationships with their partners are not important. The next victory is important for them, after which he will run to look for new conquests. And they also like to talk about the polygamy of men and the fact that men, changing their bodies, do not change their souls. They are unreasonably jealous of their companions in life.
