Life consists of meetings and partings, and you need to come to terms with this. There are no irreplaceable people, and there never will be, so you don't need to worry too much about parting. Life goes on no matter what. Even if your husband left you, this is not a reason to shed tears and curse fate. Instead of grieving, take action.
So, first, decide what you want: start a new life or get your spouse back. And in fact, and in another case, the time has come for radical changes. And you should only be happy about this, because a new life is coming for you.
In both cases, you must start with changes in appearance. Take a critical look at yourself and decide what you need to fix. If you have weight problems, then go on a simple diet or just start eating right. Buy a gym membership to tighten your muscles and shape your body.
Sign up for a beauty salon to tint your eyebrows and eyelashes, get a manicure and pedicure, and undergo several cosmetic procedures. Be sure to visit the hairdresser. Check with a professional to find a new hairstyle. After all these actions, you will feel refreshed, the mood will rise at least a little.
Next, take care of your wardrobe. Do not be shy and do not spare money, because you are entering a new life. And now, more than ever, you need positive emotions. It is better to visit stores with a close friend or friend, they will tell you what exactly suits you.
In a new life, you need to get rid of bad habits. Quit smoking, biting your nails, endlessly chatting on the phone, or chewing on pens. Try changing your daily routine. If you are used to running in a work-home-work circle, then you are unlikely to be able to fully enjoy all the changes. You don't have to visit restaurants and casinos. Go to a museum, theater, go outdoors, or just go shopping. Not grocery; go to a jewelry or antique store, even if you don't plan on buying anything.
If you decide to return your husband, then first analyze your behavior. Find all your mistakes and write them down on a piece of paper. Then consider how not to repeat them in the future. Perhaps you did not manage the house well, often quarreled with your spouse, forgot about promises, demanded the impossible. Or, on the contrary, they loved him too much, put his interests above their own, forgot about themselves.
Change your behavior drastically the next time you meet with your husband. Be what he would like to see you. Surely, the spouse will be surprised by such changes. And together with a new image, this behavior can make a strong impression.
Calmly talk about what exactly did not suit him in your relationship. Do your best to hold back and do not lead the conversation to a quarrel. Of course, this will be difficult to do. Just remember that your marriage depends on your behavior. Analyze your spouse's words. Perhaps you missed something in your assessment of your life together. Try to prove to your other half that you have changed, and it is not necessary to destroy the marriage.
Well, if you decide to start life without him, then you urgently need to find a new love. Use all methods. Go to nightclubs, libraries, cafes, restaurants, zoos. Register on a dating site, try to visit more often. Nobody knows where a new pleasant meeting awaits you. Don't spend your evenings at home, try to be more active.
Life goes on, no matter what happens. Try not to get melancholy. Your task is to act, develop as a person, in spite of the past years. Always improve, and then hardly anyone will want to leave you.
