Families do not always have an even and calm relationship. Spouses may quarrel, shout, swear and even leave the house. But at this moment you do not need to become discouraged, but decide for yourself - do you want to return it?
How to get your wife back
If the answer is yes, you need to take action. Do not postpone the return of your wife on the back burner, because she may get used to life without you or find another. Give it a day or two to cool down and then begin the return operation.
Understand the reasons why she left. Remember all her remarks, claims and accusations over the past month. Most often, women leave due to lack of attention or from the laziness of the husband. Use what you learn to show how you have changed.
Start communicating with her. If she doesn't want to see you, don't give up trying to contact her. Send a bouquet of flowers through the delivery service, send cute SMS messages, throw letters of apology at the door, call by phone. Show that you regret your breakup and want to fix it.
When she changes from anger to mercy, show a change in your life. For example, if she blames you for carelessness, start complimenting her and giving her other courtesies. If you find a better job, tell her about it, promise that now you will live better.
Do not repeat past mistakes when she comes back to you. She won't come back all the time, so don't give her a reason to leave. Try to communicate more, talk about problems, look for ways to solve them, and help her around the house.
How to live without a wife
But if you understand that you won't be able to get your wife back or you don't want to return to family life, you need to learn to live alone. Don't be discouraged or depressed, because life doesn't end there.
Don't try to wash down your grief with alcohol. It is in this situation that some men get drunk and become alcoholics, do not stoop to this. It is better to give up alcoholic beverages for a while in order to soberly look at what is happening and improve your life.
Complete your free time. Take time to go fishing, fix your car, clean up your garage, re-read your favorite books, or play computer games. So you will not leave yourself time to think about what is happening and experience the pain of the loss of your beloved woman.
Get out into people, do not shut yourself up. When a little time has passed and you feel the strength to start a new relationship, do not be afraid to burn yourself. Do not transfer past grievances and experiences to other women. After all, it is not at all necessary that history will repeat itself. Meet, communicate, fall in love and learn to enjoy relationships.