Unfortunately, families sometimes break up - due to the inability of the spouses to give in and unwillingness to understand each other, due to the fact that someone has met a new love … However, after parting, all relations between husband and wife are not always broken - especially if they have have a child.
Instructions
Step 1
After the divorce, even if it was difficult, do not show hostility towards your ex-wife. In conversations with mutual acquaintances, and especially with your children, only speak well of her. If, when meeting with children, you give them gifts, do not forget about their mother - even a chocolate bar will be a manifestation of attention and friendliness to your ex-wife. Let her know that she can count on your help in raising children and in everyday life. Back up your words with deeds.
Step 2
If your ex-wife has a page on social networks, go there from time to time and leave compliments, appreciating the photos and any achievements she talks about. Show interest in her affairs and the health of her relatives. Do not forget to congratulate the first family on the holidays.
Step 3
If you are married a second time, make it clear to your ex-wife that you value her human and feminine qualities highly, even if you did not understand how good she is before. This attitude will help alleviate the pangs of jealousy and more or less reconcile it with you.
Step 4
If your ex-wife tries to manipulate you by blackmailing your children, try to settle the matter peacefully. If you are a parent, the law is on your side. In practice, your ex-wife will be able to interfere with your communication. Try to build a warm, trusting relationship with your children so that they see you not only as a father, but also as a friend. Try not to miss appointments with your child if he is expecting them. Always keep your promises.
Step 5
If you want to start a family with your ex-wife again, think about why you broke up. Try to get rid of the habits that have caused quarrels and conflicts. Make your ex-wife know about positive changes in you from relatives or mutual acquaintances. If you are going to go for a walk or to some interesting place when meeting with children, call her with you - let her remember the time when you were a loving family.
Step 6
Try to change your life for the better. A very effective way is playing sports. Firstly, it is good for your health, secondly, you will look better, and thirdly, you will have interesting acquaintances with the same hobbies. If your wife did not appreciate the person she once left, then perhaps she will be sorry to lose a sporty, attractive man without bad habits, who will be spirited by another.
Step 7
When you feel that your ex-wife appreciated your attitude towards her and your children, start talking about reconciliation. Hear her opinion on your past behavior and promise to address major flaws. If your wife agrees to try again, do not forget your promises and keep your word.
