Husband and wife are two communicating vessels. Therefore, a woman can quite strongly influence the success of a spouse. There are several secrets to take your man to the next level.
If you think about what qualities a man must have in order to become successful, you can make a whole list where purposefulness, decisiveness, perseverance, constancy will be present. And this is true. Without these qualities, a man, if he reaches certain heights, is unlikely to hold on to the pedestal for a long time.
But every person is created in order to love and be loved. An egoist is never happy. Therefore, all his merits are ultimately unfulfilling.
It is a wise woman who can make a man successful if she knows how to properly help her chosen one. The most important thing is to have potential. There are men who are not ready to change, not ready to decide something and do something. You can try to push an infantile person to success, but, as practice shows, this is very energy-consuming and ineffective.
Remember who's boss
The woman is a helper. She should not be in charge, she should give the reins to her husband. If you solve all the problems yourself, you don't need a man. Only by agreeing that the spouse is stronger, you give him the energy of success. If you want to rule yourself, then do not complain that you work 3 jobs, and he will not strike a finger.
If a man knows that the well-being of the family depends only on him, and there is no one else to rely on, he will act! You have probably often noticed that in families where parents help, a man does not really bother himself with work.
I believe in you, be responsible
If you do not believe in your man, she believe that he will be able to achieve something, that is how it will be. Believe in him, support. Even if he makes mistakes, they will be his mistakes. And he will be responsible for them. The most important thing is that he admits this responsibility. Not that everyone around is to blame, but not me. This is the slogan of a loser who cannot even be responsible for his own life, let alone his wife and children.
If you are used to doing everything yourself, it will be difficult. But a man is more rational and when he learns everything will be fine. Family income will go to a completely different level, as will your relationship. He, as a responsible husband, will pamper his woman with gifts, will try to please in order to gain even more trust.
We think correctly
Repeat mentally "you are a man, you are always right, you are in charge, I believe in you." Even mentally repeating these attitudes when you talk to your man, you will energize him. Remember that a woman makes a man by her thoughts about him.
Thoughts are like electricity, they are not visible, but they form certain vibrations that will make your husband become better and achieve success.
Try to immediately chop off bad thoughts if they enter your head. Keep repeating that your man is the best. In fact, the fact that you will think badly about him will not make it easier for you. Therefore, remove all negativity.
A successful man for a beloved woman
You need an incentive to move towards your goal. If your man grows, develops and earns more, and you stay at the same level, most likely there will be a replacement for you. Perhaps not immediately, but after some time it will definitely happen. Like attracts like. Make the man your thoughts about him, but do not forget about yourself. Constantly develop, improve. Go to gyms, beauty salons, do what makes you happy, fills you with joy. After all, a successful man, having come home, wants to receive a portion of love, affection and admiration from his wife, and not contemplate a tortured fury who is always unhappy with everything.
First of all, you must be of the greatest value in his eyes. That everything he does is for you! So that you feel better, not for status, and not for Vitka to envy from the next doorway.
Gratitude
Don't forget to thank. Sincerely. For giving gifts, for helping around the house, for hammering a nail, although it is 20 centimeters higher than necessary.
Leave criticism. Nobody likes criticism. It blocks all potential. The desire to change disappears. What is the point of straining if you receive a portion of criticism in response.
A woman who is always dissatisfied with everything, who is always not enough, will also remain at a broken trough, as in Pushkin's fairy tale.
Be grateful, fill your man with positive energy, love him, grow with him, and then your house will always be a full cup. Children will live in love. And this is very important, because then they themselves will be able to build the right families. The success of a man is not only in the material component, although it is most important for him, since he is a breadwinner, but also in realization within the family.
