Some mystery should remain in a woman, so it is better not to discuss some things with a man. If you want to build a harmonious and happy relationship, you should not touch on topics that your loved one may be unpleasant.
There are topics that psychologists do not advise to touch upon in the process of communicating with a man. This will help keep the intrigue in the relationship. A woman should have little secrets, even from a loved one. Experts identify 9 main taboo topics.
Details of the relationship with the ex
In order to build a strong and trusting relationship with a new chosen one, in no case do you need to discuss past novels with him. It is better to hide these details of the biography or outline them in general terms if the man himself asks about it. Conversations on this topic may not be entirely pleasant to your loved one. If a woman speaks badly about her past lovers, tells enough personal things about them, this can embarrass the man. He will think that the same thing might happen to him someday.
Men like to feel like winners. When they hear that their chosen one in the past had a lot of fleeting romances, this somewhat reduces the value of the companion in their eyes. You should not tell your loved one about former partners and increased attention from men, so that he does not lose interest and does not begin to consider a woman a "challenge cup".
Secrets of your girlfriends
In no case should you discuss the secrets of your friends with your chosen one. This is not decent in relation to friends. A man who has heard from his beloved some personal information about other women can change his attitude towards the chosen one. He will understand that she cannot be trusted with any secrets and she, most likely, also discusses intimate details with her friends. Not everyone will want to deal with a person who does not know how to keep secrets.
Secrets of your beauty
Women try to look great for their chosen ones and spend a lot of effort on it. Men like to enjoy beauty, they love it when their loved ones are well-groomed, well-dressed. But all efforts may be in vain if you discuss with your beloved all the procedures that you have to do in order to get closer to the ideal. In this case, the woman loses her mystery. It is not entirely pleasant for men to hear about some things, so you should not discuss depilation or, for example, nail extension with your beloved.
Health problems
When the relationship has not yet reached a certain level, has not become so trusting as to share the most intimate with the chosen one, you should not discuss your health status with him. It is only permissible to outline the problem in general terms if it is serious. You do not need to constantly talk to a man about your illness and your illnesses.
Female physiology
If a woman wants to remain mysterious, desirable for her man, one cannot discuss the features of physiology with him. You should not talk to him about hygiene during critical days, constipation, digestive problems. All this can cause rejection in the chosen one.
My feelings
Trust and sincerity in a couple is very good. But some of the feelings a man still should not voice. For example, you shouldn't talk to him about how unpleasant his mom is. If a woman at the initial stages of the development of the novel speaks of dislike for the parents of the chosen one or for his friends, children from a previous marriage, she risks being left alone.
Intimate desires and fantasies
Sincerity is important in an intimate relationship. You can and should discuss your desires with your partner. But some women admit that they sometimes represent their ex or even some celebrity in the place of the chosen one. There is nothing wrong with that, but it is definitely not worth discussing such fantasies with a loved one. Such information may be misunderstood by them.
Attitude towards money
Psychologists do not advise women to talk about money, about their love for a wealthy life or about how much a friend's husband earns when they begin to build a relationship with a man. The chosen one may suspect the chosen one of commercialism. This behavior can alert or even scare away.
Flirting on the side
Another taboo topic is flirting on the side and the attention of strangers. Often women try to make the chosen one jealous and talk about the fact that a colleague is showing unambiguous signs of attention, or about a friendly dinner with an old friend. Not everyone likes such revelations. Some men get angry or even begin to doubt the decency of their beloved.
