Having an interesting conversation is challenging, especially in a nascent relationship. In this case, as a rule, the fear of saying something wrong or creating the impression of a boring interlocutor stops you. Fortunately for a girl, there are universal topics for discussion with a guy of any character and mindset.
If you find it difficult to come up with a topic for conversation, do not despair. There are themes that unite all guys on Earth. Keep them in mind and hanging out with a new boyfriend can be fun for both of you. If, however, there is a pause in the conversation, do not be alarmed, do not fiddle with your clothes and do not look away. Take a few deep breaths and relax. Sometimes silence only helps to feel even more the nascent feeling. This is the best sign that you are good together and without the flow of words. However, in order to establish contact, you can safely adhere to the following topics in the conversation.
Suggestive questions
Have you already texted or discussed stories from your personal life before? Perfectly! Ask additional questions that will help develop the theme of family, school or work. Firstly, such conversations help to learn more about each other, and secondly, these topics bring the interlocutors closer together.
What is happening in the world?
With a guy, you can safely discuss the events taking place in the country and the world, as well as news from the life of stars. Perhaps it turns out that you love the same music group. Just don't go deep into politics - this is one of the taboo topics.
Ask for advice
Men love to dominate. They think they know everything about everything. If you want to get close to a guy, ask him for help, whether it's school, work, or personal concerns. Make him feel strong and smart. In this way, you let him know that you trust his opinion.
How was your day?
This is the simplest and most unobtrusive question. It is universal for both new relationships and family life. At the beginning of any story, everything seems new and interesting. Talking about the events of the past day will not be boring for you. In addition, such a conversation usually touches on a lot of other topics.
Hobbies and hobbies
Find out if the guy has any hobbies and show a genuine interest in what he has to say. After all, what he is fond of, of course, is important to him.
Ambition
What does he dream about, what does he want from this life? Guys love to make plans for life. Find out about them and subtly suggest ways to achieve his dreams. Believe me, by finding the right words, you will easily gain trust in the eyes of this guy, which means that he will want to hear your advice in the future.
Flirting
Guys love to be naughty. A little bit of flirting in conversation doesn't hurt. However, you need to subtly feel when you need to stop so as not to seem vulgar and vulgar. Pick the right moment and ask some naughty questions about his fantasies and whether he finds you attractive. Such a conversation can take place even if you communicate by SMS or on social networks.
Friends
Friends have an important place in the heart of any man. Show interest in this side of his life. Maybe he wants to tell some funny stories or even introduce you to friends. By the way, when you meet them, remind them of one of the curious cases from their friendship. You can laugh at him together, this will set up his friends positively towards you, and your boyfriend will shine with pride for you.
Games and cars
It might be a cliché, but nonetheless, most guys do know a lot about games or cars. Just don't try to talk about what you don't know. You can get screwed up and look stupid. Just try to find out what video games he likes and if he has a car. Small details will help you know better if you have common interests.
Do you have a future?
When asking a question, try to answer it yourself. When proposing a topic of conversation, be ready to open up. In a new relationship, it is important to find out as early as possible if the partners are suitable for each other. If you have nothing in common, is it worth wasting time on such communication?
