When communicating with your child, pay close attention to what and how you say and do. Children should trust their parents, be proud of them, and obey. This is one of the basic rules of education.
1. Do not read long lectures to your child. At best, he will simply listen to them, but he will not follow them, and at worst, he will be angry with you or harbor resentment. It is easier and more effective to set a good example for children with your behavior.
2. Children rely on their parents and, seeing their weaknesses and shortcomings, are lost. While they are small, they have no one else to rely on. Do not deceive the child, because if he finds out about your lies, it will forever undermine his trust in you, or he will decide that if his parents are deceiving, then he can do the same.
3. Never quarrel in front of a child. Hearing mother and father shout at each other, the child gets scared or starts to rebel. You also need to be calm and friendly with those around you: friends, teachers, kindergarten teachers, parents on the playground.
4. Do not frighten children with Baba Yaga, wolves, monsters. A child raised in fear is unlikely to be calm, kind, caring.
5. Don't beat your children, even if they deserve it. You can spank a child
but not in moments of anger. The child will quickly forget the slap, and the face of the mother or father, distorted by anger and malice, will remember for a long time.
6. The child should know that you are fair, punishing him for a bad deed, and not for something that he has already "got". And he must also understand that there are rules that must be followed for his own good.
7. Do not call your child mediocre, lazy. Children are easily suggestible, and if you tell your child every time how clumsy he is, he will not want to learn to do something, and after a while he can really become lazy.
