Raising a child is an important part of any parent's life. Everyone wants their child to grow up strong, healthy, smart and well-mannered. The most basic and important period in a child's life is the age of up to three years. It is during this period that the child's character and habits are formed. Therefore, special attention should be paid to this particular period.
The value of developing activities
In order for a child to grow up versatile, you need to constantly pay attention to him, deal with your child. Educational games, drawing, music, modeling - all this helps the child to better understand the world around him. Attention should be paid to physical exercise. The main thing here is not to overdo it. Many parents make the mistake of being too busy with their child, which is not a good method in upbringing. It is also necessary to take into account the choice and wishes of the child. Let him choose the sporting direction that he likes the most.
Instilling the skills of hard work
The development of such a quality as hard work is also very important in a child's life. Do not forbid your child to do different things. Ask your child to help you around the house. Girls can be taught to love cooking. After all, if the daughter grows up to be a good housewife, it will be completely mother's merit.
Criticize skillfully
It is important to pay special attention to criticism in any endeavor of the child. In no case should you criticize or condemn. In every family, a model for a child is his parents. Often parents pay too much attention to raising their children, but at the same time they make a huge mistake - they forget about their own upbringing. Every child is a reflection of their parents. First of all, you should remember about your behavior in the presence of a child, about the words spoken, and, of course, actions.
What is the most important thing in education?
The main thing is to surround the child with love and parental care, but the amount of time spent with the child does not affect parental attention in any way. Where the child is: in the garden or at his grandmother's, it doesn't matter. Parental love and care is invisible and is constantly present in the child's life. It is important - interest in everything that the child does. It is necessary to develop parental interest already from the cradle.
A huge mistake many parents make nowadays is replacing many useful activities with gadgets. Parents from a very young age buy their child a tablet or phone. Psychologists and doctors keep repeating that this is very harmful. Many modern games on computers or tablets develop mental instability, hyperactivity, nervousness, etc. in the child in the future.
Physical punishment is also not welcomed by psychologists; psychological punishment will be much more effective, so that the child in the future understands what is good and what is bad, how to act and what not to do.