Alcoholism of a husband, father, as a rule, makes you and your children unhappy, and gradually destroys the family altogether. Therefore, you cannot put up with it. Fight and do whatever you can to save your relationship, keep a father for your children.
Instructions
Step 1
If a person is dear to you, if feelings are still preserved, despite constant drunken fights, do not turn away from him, help him cope with this misfortune.
Step 2
Remember that scandals, reproaches and tantrums will not give the desired results. Better think about when and why your loved one began to consume alcoholic beverages in unlimited quantities. It was probably a difficult period in his life, and he was unable to overcome the circumstances. During such a period, you had to be with your husband so that he did not feel unnecessary and unloved. Drinking alcohol is most often a way to get away from problems.
Step 3
Therefore, it would be wrong to shift all the blame onto him. But do not indulge his weaknesses, moreover, do not drink alcohol with him. Instead, sit down together and talk frankly about the fact that he has an alcohol addiction that needs to be dealt with together.
Step 4
Create as comfortable and calm atmosphere at home as possible. Don't turn your children against your father.
Step 5
The hardest part is getting the alcohol addict to confess to himself and to you about his addiction and to agree to treatment.
Step 6
Find out where the best specialists work with effective methods in the fight against this ailment. Go with your spouse to an appointment with a narcologist and get a referral to the clinic. It may take preliminary work with a psychologist to convince the husband of the need for treatment.
Step 7
Do your best to stop your spouse from hanging out with your drinking buddies so that you are not tempted to drink again.
Step 8
Do not leave your husband alone with this addiction, help him overcome the disease, and then peace, peace, love will return to your family again.
