Unfortunately, life with a second half implies not only joys, but also problems. And sometimes it is not about general difficulties, but about the struggle of one spouse against the other. To protect yourself from dangerous situations, you need to know how to deal with domestic violence.
Instructions
Step 1
It is not customary to talk about domestic violence: women and children, who most often become its victims, prefer to remain silent out of fear or involuntary compassion for the torturer. They do not suddenly become tyrants. As a rule, a man prone to impulsive behavior beautifully looks after, shows passionate feelings at the initial stage of a relationship. Then such a husband discovers jealousy, irritability, allows himself to raise his voice, slam doors, break dishes. After that, there comes a period when the spouse dismisses his hands in relation to both his wife and children. Scandal is usually followed by stormy reconciliation, but this is only the calm before the next storm. It is almost impossible to correct the tyrant, it is better to find the strength to get rid of him.
Step 2
The law is on your side, but only you can help yourself. If assault scandals are common in your family, don't push the situation to the extreme. If it is not possible to immediately change your place of residence, you must always have documents at hand, a certain amount of money and spare keys to the apartment (and car, if any) so that you can leave the house at any time. Find a place (for example, with your parents) where you can temporarily hide from the tyrant of the house. Do not let fights take place in the presence of children.
Step 3
Sometimes women suffering from domestic violence do not dare to leave their tyrant spouse because of their material dependence on him. In this situation, it is important to understand that freedom will give you the opportunity to find a job and get on your feet, gain independence and self-respect. Ask for help from relatives or friends with whom you can live for a while before you can earn money to rent a separate apartment or change an apartment. It may not be easy at first, but without this step, you will not be able to protect yourself from domestic violence.
